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Trying for a Baby Part 8

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  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
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    Lily Im really sorry.
  • vic3
    vic3 Posts: 804 Forumite
    Hugs lily. How long has your lp been this cycle? X
    DS born November 2013 :smileyhea
  • lilymay1
    lilymay1 Posts: 1,597 Forumite
    vic3 wrote: »
    Hugs lily. How long has your lp been this cycle? X

    Thanks guys. Feeling quite sorry for myself at the moment.

    Currently 11dpo, which is BRILLIANT. I don't think AF is going to start for a few days...cervix is still very high, soft but closed most of the time. Temps are still high - and my chart is nice and biphasic. The pain in more like a dull ache in my lower back and my nipples have been very very sore since about 2dpo. Had this been a natural cycle I would have been feeling very positive. But I know my dates are right and I'm getting to the point where, if I were pregnant, I *should* be getting a positive test.

    I looked at my little 'pregnancy diary' before. I hardly ever dig it out as 99% of it is for my pregnancy with DD and it just ends so abruptly it upsets me. I did put a couple of the early scans I had with DS in there, and there is a pic of the 3 pregnancy tests I did with him. 1 is a cheapo one, and 2 are FRER's and to be honest I was surprised at how faint the lines were. The cheapo one was hardly visible. I have no idea how many DPO I was when I did them, but probably somewhere between 10 and 14.

    Anyway, hope everyone else is doing okay. I'll take my sorry backside away and stop being so miserable!
    14th October 2010
    20th October 2011
    3rd December 2013
  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
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    Well I suppose at least it shows the clomid is helping with your luteal phase Lily because the worst thing would be for it to help you get a fertilised egg but then it didnt implant because that wasnt sorted. So fingers crossed for next cycle, IF it doesnt work this time.
  • lilymay1
    lilymay1 Posts: 1,597 Forumite
    claire16c wrote: »
    Well I suppose at least it shows the clomid is helping with your luteal phase Lily because the worst thing would be for it to help you get a fertilised egg but then it didnt implant because that wasnt sorted. So fingers crossed for next cycle, IF it doesnt work this time.

    I have wondered that every cycle for the last 15! Atleast there is no way of knowing :o
    14th October 2010
    20th October 2011
    3rd December 2013
  • maire1
    maire1 Posts: 300 Forumite
    And for the list, I'm 29. Chance of one baby by 30 now gone and I got married v young thinking I'd have at least two by then :(
  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
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    lilymay1 wrote: »
    I have wondered that every cycle for the last 15! Atleast there is no way of knowing :o

    Exactly.

    Although sometimes I wish we knew if it was fertilised or not so then it wouldnt always be a '2ww' you could just wait for AF without wondering!
  • Lilymay - so glad to hear that clomid is helping you. Keeping my fingers crossed that the witch stays away. Hoping you are the next BFP but scared to jinx it:A

    COMP - So very happy for you. :jCongratulations:j

    Becca - Could I be updated on the front page to 38 please.
  • fluffysox
    fluffysox Posts: 1,060 Forumite
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    Hi could i be added to the list on first page of new thread thanks.
    We have a 21 month old so are TTC #2. Last time we got pregnant very quickly but it was Summer time, holidays no stresses etc. This time we are more tired so tbh have only BD a few times in Jan. Working hard and baby still waking in the night plus we both had the flu :(
    Plus its the luck of the draw each month I guess so can't expect it to be so quick again.
    So we got married just before Christmas and finished the pill just after new year. Had withdrawal bleed and from the start of that I'm on Day 32 from start of that but wouldn't say i am late as previous times coming off the pill its been 5 and 7 weeks til AF. So took a test anyway at weekend BFN of course. Will take another every Saturday until AF arrives. Regretting telling my mother that we are TTC as she keeps asking me if I've got something to tell her yet- its only the first month. Oh I'm 33.
    Summary: ttc #2 since 1/13 age 33
    2016 MFW OPd £2000, 2015 MFW OPd 3000 then bought new bigger house with bigger mortgage.
    MFW OPd 2014 £2000 2013 £9700 2012 £2848.39 2011 £2509.58 2010 £11000 2009 £112002008 £4939 :D
    Beautiful boys born May 2011 and October 2013 :)
  • fluffysox
    fluffysox Posts: 1,060 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Btw i have posted on here a couple of times and also joined a previous version of this thread last time. Also been reading all your posts for the past couple of months while i was waiting til after the wedding to TTC #2
    2016 MFW OPd £2000, 2015 MFW OPd 3000 then bought new bigger house with bigger mortgage.
    MFW OPd 2014 £2000 2013 £9700 2012 £2848.39 2011 £2509.58 2010 £11000 2009 £112002008 £4939 :D
    Beautiful boys born May 2011 and October 2013 :)
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