Trying for a Baby Part 8

TeamLowe

totally not queue jumping and who cares if it is, it's not an actual queue! lol
Welcome to Scooby, i'm sorry i don't know what a TFMR is
got my fingers crossed for you, i'd test at 14DPO which is the 'normal' luteal phase, here's hoping you're only a member of here for 5 days! lol x x

lilymay1

COMP - That looks like a TLP to me. Maybe even a BFP

Congratulations chicken, very happy for you

(Show us the IC from this morning) xx

clearing_out_my_pockets

TeamLowe wrote: »

totally not queue jumping and who cares if it is, it's not an actual queue! lol
Welcome to Scooby, i'm sorry i don't know what a TFMR is
got my fingers crossed for you, i'd test at 14DPO which is the 'normal' luteal phase, here's hoping you're only a member of here for 5 days! lol x x

Termination for medical reasons

(((Hugs))) to you scooby. I know it isn't the same, but my friend had a termination a little while ago and I know it's a horrible thing to go through, but must be so hard when it's a longed for child.

clearing_out_my_pockets

lilymay1 wrote: »

(Show us the IC from this morning) xx

No can do. It's at home in Kent, I'm at my desk in London.

RazWaz

Birdie85 wrote: »

Hugs for AF/Chemical RazWaz How does your OH feel about using a donor? Having a think about the what-ifs I'm trying to figure out how we'd feel about having a baby that isn't biologically my OH's, not that I've said anything to him yet, this is all in my head for now. I suppose the plus side would be that there's no risk of him passing down his Dad's enormous nose and ginger hair, thankfully OH has neither but I'm aware that they're in his gene pool!

I think it helps that he was never really fussed about kids before me, and he's sort of going along with it cause I want it. Plus both his sisters got pregnant very very young and he helped to raise his nephew and niece, so he's already very comfortable in the 'Fatherly uncle' role.

There is also the very nasty heart defect that runs in his side of the family that we'd be avoiding which helps make the decision a little easier.

QQuaver wrote: »

RazWaz, there's a maximum age for funding for men too?

That's what I read when I was looking for information last year, I might have misremembered though. Even so, I'm under the minimum age limit myself, and could only ever get funding for one child (I've always wanted a big family, 4-6 kids) so we would just end up turning to a donor in the future anyway.

I'm not sure I could wait another 10 months before even getting a referral, I've been desperately wanting a baby for 5 years now already. I know I'm young but something set of my broodyness in my early teens and it just seems to get stronger every year.

scoobydoo02

TeamLowe wrote: »

totally not queue jumping and who cares if it is, it's not an actual queue! lol
Welcome to Scooby, i'm sorry i don't know what a TFMR is
got my fingers crossed for you, i'd test at 14DPO which is the 'normal' luteal phase, here's hoping you're only a member of here for 5 days! lol x x

Thanks for the welcome, TFMR is a termination for medical reasons, it was a surprise pregnancy, i was on the pill, very much wanted but wasn't to be:(

I'm counting down the days to 14 dpo now, being positive about things but one can only hope:)

mrsj28

clearing_out_my_pockets wrote: »

No can do. It's at home in Kent, I'm at my desk in London.

COMP - get your priorities sorted... leave work, go home, take a photo, upload it... job done :rotfl:

I bet it's hard to concentrate at work today! Are you going to do a digi tomorrow?

mrsj28

Welcome scoobydoo - so sorry to hear about the TFMR I hope your stay here will be short and sweet and you'll get a BFP very soon!

scoobydoo02

clearing_out_my_pockets wrote: »

Termination for medical reasons

(((Hugs))) to you scooby. I know it isn't the same, but my friend had a termination a little while ago and I know it's a horrible thing to go through, but must be so hard when it's a longed for child.

Thanks COMP, it was an awful thing I'd never dreamed I'd have to go through (I'm 40 and not getting any younger) but you have to move on and try again:)

scoobydoo02

mrsj28 wrote: »

Welcome scoobydoo - so sorry to hear about the TFMR I hope your stay here will be short and sweet and you'll get a BFP very soon!

I really should just learn to reply to everyone in one post:)

thanks Mrs J and to everyone, lets hope all our visits here result in some fab BFPs very soon! We all deserve it!:beer: