Trying for a Baby Part 8

trina2010

afternoon all
hope you are all well today, fingers crossed for those testing!

im ever so impatiently waiting, ive got a few more days to go before i could feasibly test, so ill try and be patient and throw in a few extra BDs for luck (or just for fun).

loulou123

I need a slap as I've just poas (bfn) couldn't help myself as some I'd ordered came through post.

They are the internet cheap ones, that you can test early with, so I'm guessing that tho its early to test, it would've shown at least a faint positive at this stage if I was pregnant.....so guessing its fairly unlikely I'm going to get a BFP again this month :-(

*BigBird*

Hi loulou. ICs were still giving me BFNs a week after a clearblue digi gave me a BFP. (they were there in the cupboard and needed using up ) So I wouldn't rely on them - certainly don't take them as proof you're not pg until AF turns up.

I'll go back to lurking now

Birdie85

Well knock me down with a feather, OH actually spoke to the doctor about his SA! He's got a little pot and is waiting for a phone call to confirm when he actually has to drop off the sample. He's been warned off BD until he finds out when he has to drop the sample off, don't want to do it tonight to find out that they want it on Thursday! And of course, because he's not allowed to DTD that's all he wants now! :rotfl:

He also said that the doctor told him that it's quite normal to TTC for 2 years, glad I didn't go to him originally, I'd have cried all over him about not wanting to wait that long!

QQuaver

Testing list

Wed 19th Sept - RazWaz
Wed 19th Sept - Cooops
Wed 19th Sept - lilymay
Thu 20th Sept - PommeVerte
Fri 21st Sept - BenHope
Sun 23rd Sept - COMP
Thu 27th Sept - Scoobydoo
Fri 28th Sept - time2deal
Fri 28th Sept - niknok


September graduates-Winner of August BFP predictions (3) no one (closest Applepie & Gemmzie)

Definitely blonde (33) TTC#1 since 11/11 (1mc) BFP 1/9/12:j
Tinkwings (39) TTC #3 since 05/11 (mc 08/11) BFP 04/09/12:j
*BigBird* (37) TTC#2 since 04/12 BFP 05/09/12:j
claretsgirl (39) TTC#1 since 01/12 BFP 06/09/12:j
Needhelpsaving (25) TTC#1 since 01/12 (1 ectopic) BFP 09/09/12:j
Metranil Vavin (39) TTC#2 since 09/12 (1mc) BFP 16/09/12:j


September BFP predictions

Lilymay – 5
mogwai – 5
TeamLowe - 6
coops – 6
Applepie – 6
MV – 7
Elsie – 7
QQuaver - 7
RazWaz – 7
squ1rrel – 8
COMP – 8
Birdie - 9
angeltreats - 9
onlywayisup - 10
abis – 11
Becca – 12

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD31 Miss Maid - 18DPO :cool:
CD27 niknok - 16DPO :cool:
CD27 PommeVerte - 14DPO :cool:
CD27 RazWaz - 13DPO :cool:
CD45 claire16c - 11DPO :cool:
CD25 Loulou123 - 11DPO :cool:
CD25 Courgette - 11DPO :cool:
CD24 COMP - 11DPO :cool:
CD28 lilymay - 10DPO :cool:
CD30 onlywayisup - 10DPO :cool:
CD27 coops228 - 9DPO :cool:
CD22 benhope - 9DPO :cool:
CD26 Angeltreats - 9DPO :cool:
CD20 good vibes - 7DPO :cool:
CD20 time2deal - 6DPO :cool:
CD17 scoobydoo – 6DPO :cool:
CD22 JoJoB - 6DPO :cool:
CD31 firefly369 - 5DPO :cool:
CD24 TeamLowe - 3DPO :cool:

CD109 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov
CD83 Lily_The_Legend - Awaiting ov
CD68 vesper - Awaiting ov
CD58 jellybean12 - Awaiting ov
CD47 Tealover–Awaiting ov
CD47 fraz_babe - Awaiting ov
CD46 i love holidays-Awaiting ov:o
CD44 ticklepenny - Awaiting ov
CD41 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD35 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD35 minimuffin12 - Awaiting ov
CD29 Gemmzie - Awaiting ov
CD26 vesper - Awaiting ov
CD25 amyloofoo - Awaiting ov
CD21 Lilian1977 - Awaiting ov
CD19 Abis21 - Awaiting ov
CD19 trina2010 - Awaiting ov
CD18 apple*pie – Awaiting ov
CD17 mogwai - Awaiting ov
CD17 MrsHappy - Awaiting ov
CD15 Amus - Awaiting ov
CD12 TTC40 - Awaiting ov
CD12 Purcy81 - Awaiting ov
CD11 teaandcupcakesplease - Awaiting ov
CD11 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD9 QQuaver*- Awaiting ov
CD8 becca0417 – Awaiting ov
CD8 Birdie85* - Awaiting ov
CD7 Leopardlady - Awaiting ov
CD7 Elsie37 - Awaiting ov
CD5 atton83 - Awaiting ov
CD4 maire - Awaiting ov
CD4 codemonkey - Awaiting ov
CD3 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov
CD2 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov


Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart

QQuaver

Hello everyone:wave:

mrsj28, I'm glad you are feeling 'normal' now:o
courgette, SS or not, how is your ear:(
How far gone where you on your mc?
anderson, thank you for your wee wish:o
Gemmzie, when you say bright, do you mean as dark as the control line?
Time2deal, I get depressed during 2ww too:o
loulou, (((hugs))) for BFN, but you are still early.
Did your DH like the present?
abis, thank you for posting about emsbet's baby:j
Any news about sexymouse?
Birdie, well done on your DH getting the pot:T
Disney baby sounds sweet:happyhear
One of my dreams, ok my only dream is to go to Disneyland with my child:o
good vibes, (((hugs))).

littleme82

Am having a very fed up type of day today where everything and everyone is annoying me.

Just want to go home but its not 5pm

trina2010

Littleme - 5pm isnt so far away, its under the 3 hour mark shortly it'll only be 2.5 (i like to think in small increments)

Courgette

QQuaver wrote: »

courgette, SS or not, how is your ear:(
How far gone where you on your mc?

My ear is okay today, good or bad sign re pregnancy? :rotfl:

I was 10+4 when I mc'd but what I know now and didn't know then was that some mcs are worse than others. With my first I was 7 weeks and although it was twins (and except for when I passed the sack which felt weird) it really wasn't that huge an event. Of course I was very sad but I was able to be quite philosophical about it. I don't want to downplay that mc - of course I wished it hadn't have happened and of course I still think about what might have been.

This last one though was just terrible. There was absolutely nothing to suggest anything was wrong up until the point I started bleeding. I was so unwell afterwards too - physically and emotionally and am still not right.

It's been suggested already that I have some counselling but I don't really like the idea of having to wait 6 weeks or whatever then having to find childcare etc. I'd rather sign up for an exercise class or arrange to meet a friend or whatever. That said, I don't know if this is starting to drag on a bit now. I'm fine lots of the time but I still have periods where I find it very difficult to cope and get really stressed out by stuff and I wonder whether that's depression.

The problem i have found with the medical profession is they tend to view 1st tri mc as a bit of a non-event and I don't want to put myself in line for any of their hurtful comments again. Seriously, if someone came to you whose husband had just been killed in the last few hours you wouldn't say to them that you knew someone who had had two husbands killed so you should be grateful would you! :mad:

Sorry, keep blurting these things out

So next question. Before mc my cycles were 28 days. First cycle was either 31 if you count from when I lost most of the tissue or 28 if you count from the day that I suddenly passed the baby after being told by the EPU that my womb was empty (!!!!!!! ), next cycle was 24 with a fairly light loss and I'm currently on CD25. So do I wait until at least Friday to test or do I have a go tomorrow? My fear is picking up an early loss which right now I think would finish me off but if I did that would be mc#3 which might make me medically interesting, or doesn't a very early loss count. You see it has occured to me that one of the reasons why I feel like a woman on the edge and so knackered could be that I'm re-upduffed and not that I'm actually going mad. I had such strong ov pains this month too that I know we definitely caught it so it's not impossible. I just don't know what to do for the best