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rhosynbach

So annoyed with sons school:(, they have given him detention for inappropriate behaviour over a known bully trying to get him to fight he refused and walked away several times the lad shoved him then was on top of him on the floor, very big kid, ds3 mates dragged him of and ds3 called him a stupid leprochaun.(many witnesses backed this up ) he was praised for walking away and refusing to fight and for being truthfull about what happened but punished for calling him a name, (would nt we all in that position ) I am supposed to talk to him about his behaviour but he is a well behaved quite lad never been introuble and i dont feel he did much wrong what do others think i would love an opinion.

dcon_blue

Anyone going to the Stone Roses concerts this weekend and needing a car parking space?

Laura_Cello

rhosynbach wrote: »

So annoyed with sons school:(, they have given him detention for inappropriate behaviour over a known bully trying to get him to fight he refused and walked away several times the lad shoved him then was on top of him on the floor, very big kid, ds3 mates dragged him of and ds3 called him a stupid leprochaun.(many witnesses backed this up ) he was praised for walking away and refusing to fight and for being truthfull about what happened but punished for calling him a name, (would nt we all in that position ) I am supposed to talk to him about his behaviour but he is a well behaved quite lad never been introuble and i dont feel he did much wrong what do others think i would love an opinion.

I would praise him for not fighting and for being in control of himself. SO difficult, school probably had to cover themselves as not to be accused of 'allowing' name calling. I would certainly ask that the other boys, who did physically provoke him, had a more severe punishment.

Sorry that happened to your son!! It is really upsetting.

madmuppet5

rhosynbach wrote: »

So annoyed with sons school:(, they have given him detention for inappropriate behaviour over a known bully trying to get him to fight he refused and walked away several times the lad shoved him then was on top of him on the floor, very big kid, ds3 mates dragged him of and ds3 called him a stupid leprochaun.(many witnesses backed this up ) he was praised for walking away and refusing to fight and for being truthfull about what happened but punished for calling him a name, (would nt we all in that position ) I am supposed to talk to him about his behaviour but he is a well behaved quite lad never been introuble and i dont feel he did much wrong what do others think i would love an opinion.

Tell him for taking his punishment like a man he's going to get treated
Spoil him rotten!

BarleySugar

rhosynbach wrote: »

So annoyed with sons school:(, they have given him detention for inappropriate behaviour over a known bully trying to get him to fight he refused and walked away several times the lad shoved him then was on top of him on the floor, very big kid, ds3 mates dragged him of and ds3 called him a stupid leprochaun.(many witnesses backed this up ) he was praised for walking away and refusing to fight and for being truthfull about what happened but punished for calling him a name, (would nt we all in that position ) I am supposed to talk to him about his behaviour but he is a well behaved quite lad never been introuble and i dont feel he did much wrong what do others think i would love an opinion.

I'd tell him you were proud of him walking away, and that you think the school got it wrong this time. Explain it's hard for the school cos they have to be seen not taking sides etc. HTH

HappyChappy84

calmspirit wrote: »

mine too..........any chance you could lay off the bright stuff Best Price?

hides behind sofa






OMG you would not believe the stuff behind here!!!!!!!!!!!! HC time for a clear out.:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

karlie88 wrote: »

Shocking isn't he? :rotfl:

I'm coming round to help you. I'll bring the Vax.

Noooooo! That's my pigsty! leave it alone or I'll throw my toys out of the pram!

biscuitmad

rhosynbach wrote: »

So annoyed with sons school:(, they have given him detention for inappropriate behaviour over a known bully trying to get him to fight he refused and walked away several times the lad shoved him then was on top of him on the floor, very big kid, ds3 mates dragged him of and ds3 called him a stupid leprochaun.(many witnesses backed this up ) he was praised for walking away and refusing to fight and for being truthfull about what happened but punished for calling him a name, (would nt we all in that position ) I am supposed to talk to him about his behaviour but he is a well behaved quite lad never been introuble and i dont feel he did much wrong what do others think i would love an opinion.

My talk would be telling him how proud you are of him then take him out for a treat!!! :T

HappyChappy84

Miss_Laid wrote: »

I think a JCB is more appropriate

Oi!:mad::mad:


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:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

HappyChappy84

karlie88 wrote: »

:eek::rotfl::eek:

I think you're right:

:o:o:o

s10ct

HappyChappy84

Miss_Laid wrote: »

I see you've cleared 90% of it :rotfl: Don't forget to keep H.C's choccy digestive's to one side, I really can't be doing with him stropping

If you find any pizza or kebabs you can keep them too!