Feeling really down today.....

Errata

You haven't got two kids, you've got three! Sit him down and ask him what his game is because he is responsible for a family and should be doing what's best for them, not continually spending money on every new toy he sees.
If you want to lose weight, the remedy is in your own hands. Plenty of info on the net on how to do it sensibly.

marisco_2

You seem to be pulling in totally different directions. Neither of you seems to want to appreciate or accept what makes the other one happy. When you try to communicate it seems as if whatever you say falls on deaf ears. Is it possible that your husband would feel the same way?

The relationship as it is at the moment does not make you happy does it. I would be addressing all its issues, seeking relationship counselling and deciding once and for all if this is where your future really lies before committing to buying a bigger property.