Kicked out of my home by my ex-partner...

POPPYOSCAR

jackomdj wrote: »

Me to, although you can see a snippet above it would have been interesting to see the full post. I like it if someone deletes a post but it has been quoted as you still get to read the thread!

Just thinking the same!!

Mupette

Kicked out of my home by my ex-partner...
My ex-partner kicked me out monday night, after breaking up with me on the sunday. He's saying that he had no choice as I threatening him (fair enough, i'd threatened to trash the place and keep him up all night - yet I hadn't received a reason and was just being ignored after he had taken everything away from me, nor would i have done any of these things).

All of my stuff was packed and delivered by his parents later that night. I was wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation and can offer me any advice on money related things and what possible options i may have as i'm currently classed as sofa-surfing.

The house belonged to his mother and no contract was agreed (stupidstupid me), only a few bills were in both our names. He comes out with a house, fully furnished, paid for the rest of the month and a cat. The dog i have to make the decision as to whether i can have him, to do this i have to find somewhere to live soon, on no money until the 1st and on not a lot of earnings (i work full time so a second job isn't an option). The council were unbelievably unhelpful.

Does anyone have any advice on, money, relationship, my rights or possible options? I have the option to move back in with my mother/sisters.

Thanks.


Had a think and realised that because i didn't shut mse down last night on my pc, it was still there with the back button for all those who missed it before deletion.

POPPYOSCAR

Thank you Mupette!!

Mupette

no problem, now back to being bridzilla, i swear i wouldn't but.....

mountainofdebt

When the OP said she hadn't had a reason, I took it to mean she hadn't had a reason for the ex telling her it was over.

Pollycat

I find it hard to believe that the OP's ex ended the relationship (wonder how long they'd been together) and she was clueless to the reason why.

TBH, threatening to trash the place (regrdless of whether it was an empty threat or not) is not a particularly nice thing to do.

Wonder why he's keeping the cat but not the dog.
I hope the dog manages to find a good home.

pearl123

If I was in a similar position I would go back to parents or family with the dog!

the_cat

How does he 'get a house' out of you splitting up? He was given the house by his mother - you have no claim on it, quite rightly. Whilst you may have thought of it as 'your home' it wasn't really. It is his home which you resided in for a period of time

What you need right now is breathing space. Move back in with your family and take proper time to decide how to progress from here. Take the dog if you can

kingfisherblue

Mupette, thank you for posting the OP for those of us who hadn't read it. Interesting reading, and a stroppy child response from the OP in deleting her post, IMO.

DVardysShadow

I do hope the dog will be alright.