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Given four hours to live...

...and fourteen years old today :j

My little lad isn't so little any more! He was born five weeks prem, fourteen years ago. He had a number of rare birth abnormalities and a few hours after he was born, he was given just four hours to live, unless his surgery was successful. His first operations were carried out at nine hours old, to correct four major abnormalities of the digestive system. He has had further suregry since, the most recent being last September.

There have been some tough times, but some wonderful times as well. My son now has a normal life expectancy for those with Down's syndrome (maybe 65 years). Just reaching 14 has been an achievement when I look back at what he has been through!

I'm so proud of my son and I just wanted to share his birthday with you, as I have found posters on this board very supportive and friendly.

Thank you to everyone here for the help that they have given me xx
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  • nickyt
    nickyt Posts: 915 Forumite
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    What a lovely heart-warming post, Happy 14th Birthday and many more happy years.:j
    Thanks for any help and advice given
    ~~~Nicky~~~
  • noelphobic
    noelphobic Posts: 2,297 Forumite
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    I hope your son has a lovely birthday x
    3 stone down, 3 more to go
  • Chrissiew
    Chrissiew Posts: 374 Forumite
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    Happy birthday to Kingfisherblue junior:j, its brilliant to hear some good news on here and good of you to share, it gives hope to others in unfortunate situation:T
    not all on benefits are scroungers and don't need to be bullied!
  • HB58
    HB58 Posts: 1,787 Forumite
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    Happy Birthday Kingfisherblueson!! and here's to many more :bdaycake: :beer: :T
  • cleggie
    cleggie Posts: 2,169 Forumite
    Aww, how lovely :)
    Many happy returns to your son!

    My niece was given 12 hours to live when she was born 15 years ago. She was born at 27weeks and is such a fighter.

    I wish you all many many more happy years together :)
  • VfM4meplse
    VfM4meplse Posts: 34,269 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    Well done to your DS for beating the odds! Depite what you say, I have no doubt that your life has been a constant cycle of worry since he was born, so you need to give yourself credit too. Your son is very lucky to have such a lovely mum x
    Value-for-money-for-me-puhleeze!

    "No man is worth, crawling on the earth"- adapted from Bob Crewe and Bob Gaudio

    Hope is not a strategy :D...A child is for life, not just 18 years....Don't get me started on the NHS, because you won't win...I love chaz-ing!
  • happy birthday to the young man,lets hope he enjoys many many more
  • bellabooski
    bellabooski Posts: 164 Forumite
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    What a beautiful and heartening post.
    Wishing you a very Happy Birthday and God bless you always.
    XXXX:)
  • notatvstar
    notatvstar Posts: 181 Forumite
    A brilliant post.

    So chuffed for you guys
  • wiccanlou
    wiccanlou Posts: 242 Forumite
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    A very very happy birthday wish to your gift of a son i wish him many more happy ones xxx
    well today was a complete waste of make up :eek:
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