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changing your name after divorce

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  • spirit
    spirit Posts: 2,886 Forumite
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    nadi wrote: »
    Hi
    My marriage has ended after 14 years, the lieing cheating rat finally left and initiated the divorce thank goodness because even though i am better off without him i know, it would of been hard for me to make that decision. Anyway to cut a very long story short, i want to change my surname to my maiden name, what title do i adopt, miss or ms? i have no idea, thanks :cool:


    you can be whatever you want to be nadi. I chose my mother's maiden name as i dislked my own one. You can also choose whatever title you want. I am Ms but you can be Mrs Newname or Miss, the choice is yours
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  • SingleSue
    SingleSue Posts: 11,718 Forumite
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    I am still a Mrs and still have my married name....

    Caused some confusion when ex hubby visited the area last year bringing his new wife and she went to a hairdresser I was registered with, they asked her name and she said Mrs (my surname) and they said "Nice to see you again Sue".

    She went a bit red but ex hubby thought it was hysterical.
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  • pigpen
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    Use whichever you are most comfortable with..
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  • caris
    caris Posts: 730 Forumite
    Our daughter is divorced and she continues to use "Mrs"

    caris
  • neneromanova
    neneromanova Posts: 3,051 Forumite
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    Sorry, People, look at the date this was first posted. It's over 3 years old now. I think she's probably sorted her name by now. I'm guessing the person who ressurected the thread is a spammer.
    What's yours is mine and what's mine is mine..
  • kafkathecat
    kafkathecat Posts: 515 Forumite
    I am a married Ms. and was once a single Ms. if I were to divorce I would be a divorced Ms. I personally, would keep my surname in the event of divorce as I didn't like my maiden name.
  • ninky_2
    ninky_2 Posts: 5,872 Forumite
    i've always gone for ms. and i haven't changed my surname even though i'm married. this is perfectly normal for the majority of humans on the planet who don't seem to find an issue with children having a different family name. i don't see the point in changing my name - it just makes things complicated having to change documents. plus it's annoying when you can't find old friends through social network sites because they've got married.

    blokes don't find it necessary to change their name when they marry. why do western women?
    Those who will not reason, are bigots, those who cannot, are fools, and those who dare not, are slaves. - Lord Byron
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