We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

Table numbering

2

Comments

  • wanchai_2
    wanchai_2 Posts: 2,955 Forumite
    I've heard it said that if you're having a large wedding, it's usually best to avoid numbers, as the guests at Table 18 may be offended!!!

    (I was at a wedding once where there were FORTY tables - all numbered!) :rotfl:
    7 Feb 2012: 10st7lbs :( 14 Feb: 10st4.5lbs :D 21 Feb: 10st4lbs * 1 March: 10st2.5lbs :j13 March: 10st3lbs (post-holiday) :o 30 March: 10st1.5lbs :D 4 April: 10st0.75lbs * 6 April: 9st13.5 lbs :) 27 April 9st12.5lbs * 16 May 9st12lbs * 11 June 9st11lbs * 15 June 9st9.5lbs * 20 June 9st8.5lbs :D 27 June 9st8lbs * 1 July 9st7lbs * 7 July 9st6.5lbs :D
  • sugarwalsh
    sugarwalsh Posts: 1,734 Forumite
    Why 18? I am confused. Also, I would hate to have to think of 40 names of things...

    Megan
    May GC - £100 per week
    Week 1 - £120/£100 :eek:, Week 2 £110/100:o, Week 3 £110/£100:mad:, Week 4 £50/100Week 5

    DFW - March '13 - c/c £5600, April £4500, May £2500 :T
  • Idiophreak
    Idiophreak Posts: 12,024 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    wanchai wrote: »
    I've heard it said that if you're having a large wedding, it's usually best to avoid numbers, as the guests at Table 18 may be offended!!!

    OMG, I hadn't even thought of it like that!!

    I've changed my mind - I don't like numbers very much! :)
  • Idiophreak
    Idiophreak Posts: 12,024 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    sugarwalsh wrote: »
    Why 18? I am confused. Also, I would hate to have to think of 40 names of things...

    Just because it's the last - it implies priority. So the "good" people are on table 1, then the "B listers" are on table 2 - by the time you're on 18/18, you probably didn't get your invites at the same time as everyone else! Oh gosh, it hurts my ego just thinking about it!
  • sugarwalsh
    sugarwalsh Posts: 1,734 Forumite
    Oh good grief. What a mental world we live in.

    Megan
    May GC - £100 per week
    Week 1 - £120/£100 :eek:, Week 2 £110/100:o, Week 3 £110/£100:mad:, Week 4 £50/100Week 5

    DFW - March '13 - c/c £5600, April £4500, May £2500 :T
  • wanchai_2
    wanchai_2 Posts: 2,955 Forumite
    Idiophreak wrote: »
    Just because it's the last - it implies priority. So the "good" people are on table 1, then the "B listers" are on table 2 - by the time you're on 18/18, you probably didn't get your invites at the same time as everyone else! Oh gosh, it hurts my ego just thinking about it!

    Exactly. Could be 18/18 or 12/12 or 29/29. Numbered tables are a minefield!!!

    Ours will be named (not sure what yet!).
    7 Feb 2012: 10st7lbs :( 14 Feb: 10st4.5lbs :D 21 Feb: 10st4lbs * 1 March: 10st2.5lbs :j13 March: 10st3lbs (post-holiday) :o 30 March: 10st1.5lbs :D 4 April: 10st0.75lbs * 6 April: 9st13.5 lbs :) 27 April 9st12.5lbs * 16 May 9st12lbs * 11 June 9st11lbs * 15 June 9st9.5lbs * 20 June 9st8.5lbs :D 27 June 9st8lbs * 1 July 9st7lbs * 7 July 9st6.5lbs :D
  • Maybe I'll mess with people's heads and number them randomly! 5, 17, 24, 62..... :D
  • sugarwalsh
    sugarwalsh Posts: 1,734 Forumite
    I can't believe people would be offended by the number. I think the actual position is more of an indication of your 'importance'!! The tables closest to the top table are traditionally seen as the more important ones with the friends and aquaintances being furthest away. So, number them backwards if you are worried about people being offended!
    A quick tip, the Top table should always be served first, with the tables nearest being followed next etc. So if you have someone you know struggles without being fed OR who is likely to get a bit drunk if not fed quickly put them on a table near the bride and groom!
    Megan
    May GC - £100 per week
    Week 1 - £120/£100 :eek:, Week 2 £110/100:o, Week 3 £110/£100:mad:, Week 4 £50/100Week 5

    DFW - March '13 - c/c £5600, April £4500, May £2500 :T
  • wanchai_2
    wanchai_2 Posts: 2,955 Forumite
    'struggles without being fed...' ???? :rotfl:
    7 Feb 2012: 10st7lbs :( 14 Feb: 10st4.5lbs :D 21 Feb: 10st4lbs * 1 March: 10st2.5lbs :j13 March: 10st3lbs (post-holiday) :o 30 March: 10st1.5lbs :D 4 April: 10st0.75lbs * 6 April: 9st13.5 lbs :) 27 April 9st12.5lbs * 16 May 9st12lbs * 11 June 9st11lbs * 15 June 9st9.5lbs * 20 June 9st8.5lbs :D 27 June 9st8lbs * 1 July 9st7lbs * 7 July 9st6.5lbs :D
  • wanchai_2
    wanchai_2 Posts: 2,955 Forumite
    p.s. yes, we all KNOW that the closer the table, the more 'important'/close the people are to the B&G, it's just that numbered tables can really hammer home the point! :D
    7 Feb 2012: 10st7lbs :( 14 Feb: 10st4.5lbs :D 21 Feb: 10st4lbs * 1 March: 10st2.5lbs :j13 March: 10st3lbs (post-holiday) :o 30 March: 10st1.5lbs :D 4 April: 10st0.75lbs * 6 April: 9st13.5 lbs :) 27 April 9st12.5lbs * 16 May 9st12lbs * 11 June 9st11lbs * 15 June 9st9.5lbs * 20 June 9st8.5lbs :D 27 June 9st8lbs * 1 July 9st7lbs * 7 July 9st6.5lbs :D
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 354K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.3K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.3K Spending & Discounts
  • 247K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 603.7K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.3K Life & Family
  • 261.2K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.