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  • edinburgher
    edinburgher Posts: 13,985 Forumite
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    Are you still looking for a new job?

    Every day DDFW :)

    Realistically tho, I can't earn less than £20k at this point due to maternity leave, so my options are either a better version of what I do now, or a lucky break. Think I'll need to lower my sights to change to either of the careers mentioned (at least in the short term).

    It's nice to have a few ideas even if they're not instant possibilities.
  • LydiaJ
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    Thanks Lois, we're a very strong unit once we're both behind a plan.

    At least until the baby comes along, all of our problems are first world problems (i.e. saving less, as opposed to not having any savings).

    I think we're down with essentials and you would no doubt have been amused by our many withering glances when a relative told us all about their £800 pram :rotfl:

    Realistically speaking, as we have a large extended family, I think that we can expect to get most of the essentials as gifts anyway, as we don't have demanding specifications. Again, not trying to sound like we have a sense of entitlement, just the reality of new babies in big families!

    All sounds to be going in the right direction. Well done. :)
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  • Hi Mr E, I wish I had had your common sense at your age :)

    Sounds like you've worked out a good plan re reducing spends etc.

    £800 on a pram :eek::eek: Your way of life seems different to your relative. I have no idea how much they cost now but hopefully there are cheaper ones.

    What a lovely exciting chapter you are starting.

    Tilly x x
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    2011 £309k 10 years - MF March 2021.
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  • edinburgher
    edinburgher Posts: 13,985 Forumite
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    Your way of life seems different to your relative

    That's the thing Tilly, it isn't, or at least it shouldn't be.

    Educated to a similar level with decent jobs, but live in a worse part of the city, constantly run into (self created?) financial disasters and general skintness.

    They have a few more toys (i.e. modern smartphones whereas we're on early generation ones that they don't sell any more and seldom use), I suppose the main differences are driving *everywhere* and a bit too much leisure travel.

    This MFW lark is very easy when you love being at home :rotfl:
  • Alchemilla
    Alchemilla Posts: 6,274 Forumite
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    E DH and I have personal spends of £50 a month...
    I think you will find when you put word out that people will offer you loads of stuff and unexpected people at that. Some people hesitate to offer second hand stuff in case they offend.
    Exciting times!
  • Lois_E
    Lois_E Posts: 2,227 Forumite
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    Alchemilla wrote: »
    I think you will find when you put word out that people will offer you loads of stuff and unexpected people at that. Some people hesitate to offer second hand stuff in case they offend.

    Indeed they do. I remember when mine were very little somebody very diffidently asked me whether I'd be offended if they offered me second hand stuff for them and I was bewildered - it had never occurred to me that anyone could find that offensive!
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  • edinburgher
    edinburgher Posts: 13,985 Forumite
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    E DH and I have personal spends of £50 a month...

    I'm not surprised!

    2.x times our monthly mortgage bill
    Several sprogs
    Noah's ark of animals
    Something like 8x our fuel spend

    Not having a dig, surprised you have anything left Al :)

    Currently faffing about at work, auditing while waiting 25 mins for SP to answer phone is not fun :D
  • edinburgher
    edinburgher Posts: 13,985 Forumite
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    Got through after a 50 minute wait (SP are so poor that I went for the loo mid-hold and it didn't even matter) :rotfl:

    Long story short, they can see I have a new supplier, but have no idea why they haven't settled my £400+ credit for gas. £10 for 'calls' and another wait to follow :mad:

    I would love a rooftop of solar panels, dealing with utility companies is a total joke.
    • 37p payout from TCB
    • NSD is on course
    • 4 days 'til wages
    • Happy hump day :coffee:
    • A few surveys waiting for me to get home
  • Alchemilla
    Alchemilla Posts: 6,274 Forumite
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    Only two animals unless you count woodlice, spiders and silverfish.
  • edinburgher
    edinburgher Posts: 13,985 Forumite
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    edited 19 February 2014 at 4:11PM
    So, what does hound upkeep entail? :)

    I think my aquarium costs £20/mth tops, could easily half that if I wasn't into growing plants and just went for low maintenance choices.

    And don't you have a horse?
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