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Wool27

celebrate wrote: »

afternoon all,

having a jtz day and procrastinating over my paperwork, grrr! at least jtz finally got his/hers done, I am still not even started:mad:

scored 2/10 in the quiz, am currently last !!!!!!!:rotfl::A

haven't got much time to chat and struggling to keep up with the chat and thanking posts:(

tried scanning some WTP xmas gifts today all scanned at full price:eek::eek::eek:

purdita congratulations i often get gifts at xmas and send a letter of thankyou, we do accept them, ethically we are not really meant to because it could be misconstrued but most of us do accept. It depends what you would like to gift your GP with, if a box of chocs or bottle of wine then no problem. If money then I would suggest instead you donate a small amount to the practice as a whole. We had a similar donation after a patient of our passed away from the family and we bought some equipment for the practice to further improve our services for our patients. Family were very pleased with this.:)

caz wanted to ask some quick advice or any lawyers out there. I have a friend who's wife has walked out on him but now wants to move back into the family home and get a divorce and throw him out. Do you mind me asking because you have mentioned being forced to move out of your house because the ex is selling? My friend says that his soon to be ex would be entitled to live in the house as long as the children are under 16yrs and he wouldn't be able to sell or force her to move until then. Is this true. Could he obviously only do this if he couldn't afford to continue the payments on the house?

Assuming both names are on the tenancy or mortgage then she is within her right to live in the house.

locarr

hgv wrote: »

I think what you should have said is some people or Mothers/Fathers do not deserve to be parents,speaking as a father who fought tooth and nail to get custody of his son (and won) finding courts, did not at that time (36 years ago, I was 23) have any faith in fathers bringing up children as a single parent. Sorry if this seems picky and I dont mean to offend.

Just had a re-read and it looks like I may have over-reacted.

Aye, agreed and welcome to the thread!!:D

HappyChappy84

motherbear wrote: »

I've still got 1 MB xmas cake and 1 of the MB cupcakes left, I'm hoping they'll keep till DD1 & her fiance come for their 'Christmas dinner' at the beginning of March :eek:. Maybe I should start the cake now *goes to look for cake tin*

Do it now and keep it boozy.:beer:

My Christmas cakes expire this month but they should keep until Christmas surely? On another thread someone said they would and to just replace the flour.

celebrate

Wool27 wrote: »

Assuming both names are on the tenancy or mortgage then she is within her right to live in the house.

no i meant once they are divorced does she have a right to stay in the house if she gets custody of the children until they are 16?

madmuppet5

lovingtescoforever wrote: »

i got a £3.29 and £1.73 jtd voucher back! :j:beer: Biggest i've had back. Wombling is so worth it! :t

Clap clap clap :T :T :T


Big Grin

BigChrisC

celebrate wrote: »

no i meant once they are divorced does she have a right to stay in the house if she gets custody of the children until they are 16?

There's a thread over here that deals with a similar issue...
I found it while searching something else, some of it is not pleasant at times but I guess these things never are!

west_is_best

celebrate wrote: »

no i meant once they are divorced does she have a right to stay in the house if she gets custody of the children until they are 16?

From what happened in our family... I think she has every right to stay in the house until the children are 16 or still in full time education if she has custody of the children....
He will have to pay for that house (or prove that he cant afford to do so)...

There's lots of different circumstances eg. Does she work or have any sort of income?
He is going to have to prove that he cant afford to keep his wife and keep a roof over his own head the same time. If he's moved in with his parents it could be more difficult.. As she could turn round and say that he's already got a home to go to..

This brings back awful memories, my Brother and sister both are divorced, it can get so messy...
At the end of the day, its the luck of the draw... It boils down to one judge..
The only winners in divorce cases are the lawyers... :(:(:(

madmuppet5

Mad been rotating his stash and just found a Christmas pudding

Brodie_mummy

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2097566/Baby-born-outside-4C-temperatures-maternity-unit-staff-didnt-hear-mother-pressing-buzzer.html?ito=feeds-newsxml


What a shame this girl is a friend of a friend's, could not imagine that thank god for Granny though. thankfully both are doing well.

celebrate

BigChrisC wrote: »

There's a thread over here that deals with a similar issue...
I found it while searching something else, some of it is not pleasant at times but I guess these things never are!

west_is_best wrote: »

From what happened in our family... I think she has every right to stay in the house until the children are 16 or still in full time education if she has custody of the children....
He will have to pay for that house (or prove that he cant afford to do so)...

There's lots of different circumstances eg. Does she work or have any sort of income?
He is going to have to prove that he cant afford to keep his wife and keep a roof over his own head the same time. If he's moved in with his parents it could be more difficult.. As she could turn round and say that he's already got a home to go to..

This brings back awful memories, my Brother and sister both are divorced, it can get so messy...
At the end of the day, its the luck of the draw... It boils down to one judge..
The only winners in divorce cases are the lawyers... :(:(:(

no she doesn't work, he has a good job, they have 3 kids, he doesn't want to split but she keeps walking out every othermonth having some crisis or other and refuses counselling or any help, it very complicated, i just wondered if anyone kne whether he may as well just give her the house now or if there was any point in him fighting for it, selling it and getting her something smaller