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MSE Pregnancy Club 24
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BB completely normal hun, the fact your worried and panicking just shows how much you care about the baby already and how you just want the best for them xYou never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.
xx Mama to a gorgeous Cranio Baby xx
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Thank you SaliMali for pushing us down the list. We thought we were too far up to have any newbies come along, but yay, it delays the inevitable...
And eek, we're 34 weeks now. Eek Eek Eek!!! Where have the past 34 weeks gone???
PS We had fun on the sofa yesterday evening, DW had a strop because everything hurt, she couldn't move, she refused to do anything and just moaned.... To think that we might have another 8 weeks of this...
And on brighter news, someone in our NCT antenatal classes is giving birth 5 weeks early, this weekend.Having fun trying to save money without going over the top and living on budget food all the time...0 -
Morning all!
Hugs to those to had a carpy nits sleep, hope you manage to have a restful day.
BB I think many of us, especially who's first baby it is will share similar feelings. From what people tell me maternal instinct will kick in. A lot of being a mum seems to be common sense really. Remember women have been having babies for thousands of years, long before parent classes etc and the human race has survived and evolved. Some days I don't feel like I'm excited at all, people also say things like "you must be so excited la la la" and some days nope I don't feel it at all and I feel very guilty. But would never admit to these people that I may not. This is a life changing event and nerves are going be there. You're not the first person to have worries. I'm sure when bubba gets here, you'll just get on with it and settle with your own routine. Well meaning people like to tell me how I should bring up my boy when he gets here. So try not to let other's opinion worry you or add to your stresses. Anyway the gist of my rambles was that you're not alone in these feelings. Don't let anyone tell you other wise. It's hard to share feelings in real life that's why we are all here to support each other.
MrP I think Asda I printed off the coupons. Boots post them, you can join online or I think by a form in instore took a few weeks I think for things to appear. The bag is ok, but a lot of people say its too small to be practical. Anything that's free I joined!! Also Tesco gave loads of vouchers.
The bounty vouchers I thought I saw on their website? But there was nothing of interest at the time as they were mainly spending biggish amounts on things we already had so I didn't print them.
Few bits to do this morning before we leave. Whilst writing this post my (playful) OH has wanted to put his pants in my head, trial his electric razor on me and this now has upset me....asked did I have his nail clippers, nope I haven't seen them. Quote of the day "well you know me I'm too @nal and I would have put them back on my bedside table." still haven't seen them. "did you pack them?" yeah I packed some from the bathroom, of course thinking they were mine as they were in the bathroom. Anyway seems he's not as @nally tidy as he thinks is he? Stupid man......:( he'd better buy me a cake later
Rant over.....hope everyone has a good day. Will try and check in whilst away especially as it sounds like (hopefully) should be some bubba news. MissMoney crack on girl!! That LO is way too comfy in there
Bye for now xxx:j Baby boy arrived 22nd August 2012 :j
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Big ((hugs)) BB. I'm sure every first time mum to be goes through all the things you have described and I bet all the works you've been having done have probably exacerbated those feelings.
Have a nice trip away LMM.
Well I waddled down to the sorting office and back, took me about 40 mins and I'm pooped now!
It was my birthing ball, so I am now sitting on it as I type
Also just as I got back the postman arrived with my books from amazon and also my box of clothes from the lovely Gilly!
I feel like a kid at Christmas 
xx:A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove
:kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:
Patience is a virtue I lack!
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Morning all (just!).
Well despite being told to do nothing by the docs, OH and I spent the weekend doing a ton of housework - if I had sat around doing nothing I think the stress of everything not being ready would have been worse than getting it done. I now feel a sense of achievement, and feel much much calmer knowing the baby actually has somewhere to sleep now, and our hallways are no longer obstacle courses made of boxes/furniture!!
BB I could have pretty much written your post myself. As fluffnutter's OH has said, and mine keeps saying to me....we will cope!!
I officially have 9 days until my due date. Single figures. How did that happen?????
Hospital at 2 today for a growth scan (due to BP meds, although my own online research shows such a low dose and so late in preg won't have an effect - but I suppose they have to check these things), and possibly a sweep (if I decide to consent)... will be my first internal examination since getting preg, have had tons of really strong (but irregular) BH and sharp pains up there all weekend, so I'm hoping they'll tell me things are on the move!!
Miss money you'd best hurry up or I might overtake you at this rate hehe
Oh, had a letter from hospital today saying I have "mixed growth" in my last urine sample (taken at the hosp as I showed +1 protein, ketone and blood in the dip test) - anybody has this?? A quick google shows contamination to be the most likely cause, and I'm thinking as OH and I had been fruity the night before, and I had to pee in the minging hospital loo, that it could just be those that caused it??
Welcome to all the newbies, it feels like only last week I was one of you, it flies by!!!0 -
Hi, do i need to do anything to join this board?? I'm new to forums and was linked here from another discussion, think they got bored with my pregnancy worries/quires!!
I'm 29+3 with my first baby, expecting a little boy on 3rd august we have already picked out his name and the nursery is overflowing with baby stuff, i have had a struggle mentaly with the pregnancy as it was'nt planned/expected as my OH has just turned 50, actually got pregnant on his 50th birthday caribbean cruise and trip to las vegas, a birthday present he will never forget!!! now the panic has really set in mainly financial struggles as i am the main wage earner but will hopefully go into part time work once the baby has arrived as i want to spend as much time as possible witht he little en. Any freebies, general advice would be great, hope i have'nt invaded a thread i should'nt.0 -
BB - I just wanted to let you know I could have written much of your post myself. Some days I have what I call 'wobble days' - other days I go almost too far in the other direction! Much of my worries come from 'will I be good enough?' and 'what on earth I am going to do with a tiny helpless newborn baby' But with my DH's support (who is annoyingly much more confident than I am) I know we will get through those scary first few days - and like others have said, we will cope!
Much love xxxMFW!
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the3musketeers wrote: »Hi, do i need to do anything to join this board?? I'm new to forums and was linked here from another discussion, think they got bored with my pregnancy worries/quires!!
I'm 29+3 with my first baby, expecting a little boy on 3rd august we have already picked out his name and the nursery is overflowing with baby stuff, i have had a struggle mentaly with the pregnancy as it was'nt planned/expected as my OH has just turned 50, actually got pregnant on his 50th birthday caribbean cruise and trip to las vegas, a birthday present he will never forget!!! now the panic has really set in mainly financial struggles as i am the main wage earner but will hopefully go into part time work once the baby has arrived as i want to spend as much time as possible witht he little en. Any freebies, general advice would be great, hope i have'nt invaded a thread i should'nt.
:wave: hello there
you're very welcome on the thread
you are not invading
feel free to post worries,support,funny stuff and any other rambly thing that comes into your head
(thats what I do
) All the ladies here are lovely and very supportive 
turtlemoose I want her out , like right now! i feel like im going to be pregnant FOREVER!!!! ARRRRRRRGGGG!!!!:rotfl:Bad mother to 2!
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turtle I had that early on and a second sample showed everything fine. Think it was just contamination like you said.
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Turtlemoose normally mixed growth is when there's a few bits growing in there, but no specific infection do they wouldn't normally give antibiotics. This could be due to contamination like you said. Normally drinking plenty will clear anything.
Welcome 3muskateers and congrats. You're in the right place here. I'm often asking daft questions so never feel you can't ask anything.
Have got my wheelchair, parcel collected from PO. Just time for a bacon buttie then we'll be off!:j Baby boy arrived 22nd August 2012 :j
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