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wedding poem/reading

I have also asked the same question on the wedding and anniversary forum but I thought Id also ask here if thats ok.
Has anyone who is married had any lovely poems/readings at their wedding. Im doing a reading for my niece but we havent decided on what. Any ideas? Im looking for something short sweet and lovely to read. Thanks
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  • LandyAndy
    LandyAndy Posts: 26,377 Forumite
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    Are you used to public speaking? Do you have a clear confident voice?

    Nothing smaltzy and nothing more than a dozen or so lines.

    The wedding ought to be remembered for the ceremony and the bride and groom not some half stumbled over, sugary nonsense that went on far too long.

    Good luck with finding something.
  • duloch
    duloch Posts: 396 Forumite
    I was think maybe half a dozen line, just a quick nice poem or quote.
    I agree the wedding is about them but if they want a nice reading.
    Im struggling to find something nice and clear and easy to read thought Id see if anyone had any suggestions from their weddings as Ive not been to all that many.
  • Slinky
    Slinky Posts: 11,636 Forumite
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    These were read at ours

    The Art of Marriage

    A good marriage must be created.
    In the marriage, the little things are the big things...
    It is never being too old to hold hands.
    It is remembering to say ‘I love you’ at least once each day.
    It is never going to sleep angry.
    It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
    It is standing together and facing the world.
    It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family.
    It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
    It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
    It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.
    It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
    It is not only marrying the right person,
    It is being the right partner.

    True Love

    Author Unknown

    True love is a sacred flame
    That burns eternally,
    And none can dim its special glow
    Or change its destiny.
    True love speaks in tender tones
    And hears with gentle ear,
    True love gives with open heart
    And true love conquers fear.
    True love makes no harsh demands
    It neither rules nor binds,
    And true love holds with gentle hands
    The hearts that it entwines.
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  • pinkclouds
    pinkclouds Posts: 1,069 Forumite
    I don't mind sharing mine. ;) I had Sonnet 116 by William Shakespeare and Sonnet VII by Hartley Coleridge.
  • make_me_wise
    make_me_wise Posts: 1,509 Forumite
    This is the one my brother read at my wedding;

    For it is in loving, as well as in being loved, that we
    become most truly ourselves. No matter what we do, say,
    accomplish, or become, it is our capacity to love that
    ultimately defines us. In the end, nothing we do or say in
    this lifetime will matter as much as the way we have loved
    one another.
  • bylromarha
    bylromarha Posts: 10,085 Forumite
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    If they are a fun couple, my 6 year old son and I read this it mother in laws wedding in 2010 (colours are guides for 6 year old to know which bits were his!)

    He never leaves the seat up
    Or wet towels upon the floor
    The toothpaste has the lid on
    And he always shuts the door!

    He's very clean and tidy
    Though he may sometimes delude
    Leave your things out at your peril
    In a second they'll have moved!


    She romances him and dines him
    Home cooked dinners and the like
    She even knows his favourite food
    And spoils him day and night!

    She's thoughtful when he looks at her
    A smile upon his face
    Will he look that good in 50 years
    When his dentures aren't in place?!

    He says he loves her figure
    And her mental prowess too
    But when gravity takes her over
    Will she charm with her IQ?



    She says she loves his kindness
    And his patience is a must
    And of course she thinks he's handsome
    Which in her eyes is a plus!

    They're both not wholly perfect
    But who are we to judge
    He can be pig headed
    Where as she won't even budge!


    All that said and done
    They love the time they spend together
    And I hope as I'm sure you do
    That this fine day will last forever.

    He'll be more than just her husband
    He'll also be her friend
    And she'll be more than just his wife
    She'll be his soul mate 'till the end.
    Who made hogs and dogs and frogs?
  • Hi,

    Lovely ones I love!!

    A Lovely Love Story
    ~ by Edward Monkton ~

    The fierce Dinosaur was trapped inside his cage of ice. Although it was cold he was happy in there. It was, after all, HIS cage.

    Then along came the Lovely Other Dinosaur.

    The Lovely Other Dinosaur melted the Dinosaur's cage with kind words and loving thoughts.

    I like this Dionsaur, thought the Lovely Other Dinosaur. Although he is fierce he is also tender and he is funny. He is also quite clever though I will not tell him this for now.

    I like this Lovely Other Dinosaur, thought the Dinosaur. She is beautiful and she is different and she smells so nice. She is also a free spirit which is a quality I much admire in a dinosaur.

    But he can be so distant and so peculiar at times, thought the Lovely Other Dinosaur.

    He is also overly fond of Things. Are all Dinosaurs so overly fond of Things?

    But her mind skips from here to there so quickly, thought the Dinosaur. She is also uncommonly keen on Shopping. Are all Lovely Other Dinosaurs so uncommonly keen on shopping?

    I will forgive his peculiarity and his concern for Things, thought the Lovely Other Dinosaur. For they are part of what makes him a richly charactered individual.

    I will forgive her skipping mind and her fondness for shopping, thought the Dinosaur. For she fills our life with beautiful thought and wonderful surprises. Besides, I am not unkeen on shopping either.

    Now the Dinosaur and the Lovely Other Dinosaur are old. Look at them.

    Together they stand on the hill telling each other stories and feeling the warmth of the sun on their backs.

    And that, my frends, is how it is with love. Let us all be Dinosaurs and Lovely Other Dinosaurs together.

    For the sun is warm. And the world is a beautiful place.




    Maybe.....


    Maybe…We are supposed to meet the wrong people before meeting the Right one, so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
    Maybe...it is true that we don't know what we have got until we lose it, but it is also true that we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives
    Maybe...the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of
    Everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their Way.
    Maybe...the best kind of love is the kind you where you can sit on a sofa
    Together never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best Conversation you've ever had
    Maybe...you shouldn't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
    Maybe...you should hope for enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy.
    Maybe Love is not about finding the perfect person; it's about learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. When you do what you can, love will do what you can't
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  • trolleyrun
    trolleyrun Posts: 1,382 Forumite
    I think this is really lovely (hopefully the link will work):

    http://www.simonhuggins.com/uricon/classic/auden_w_h/carry_water.htm

    If link doesn't work, search online for "Carry her over the water". The poem is by W H Auden.
  • RedBern
    RedBern Posts: 1,237 Forumite
    A friend read this at his brother's wedding but stumbled over a line of it - and it became 'love is not shellfish'............




    1 Corinthians 13:1-13

    If I speak in the tongues of men and angels,
    but have not love,
    I have become sounding brass or a tinkling symbol.

    And if I have prophecy and know all mysteries and all knowledge,
    and if I have all faith so as to remove mountains,
    but have not love, I am nothing.

    And if I dole out all my goods, and
    if I deliver my body that I may boast
    but have not love, nothing I am profited.

    Love is long suffering,
    love is kind,
    it is not jealous,
    love does not boast,
    it is not inflated.

    It is not discourteous,
    it is not selfish,
    it is not irritable,
    it does not enumerate the evil.
    It does not rejoice over the wrong, but rejoices in the truth

    It covers all things,
    it has faith for all things,
    it hopes in all things,
    it endures in all things.

    Love never falls in ruins;
    but whether prophecies, they will be abolished; or
    tongues, they will cease; or
    knowledge, it will be superseded.

    For we know in part and we prophecy in part.
    But when the perfect comes, the imperfect will be superseded.
    When I was an infant,
    I spoke as an infant,
    I reckoned as an infant;

    when I became [an adult],
    I abolished the things of the infant.

    For now we see through a mirror in an enigma, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know as also I was fully known.
    But now remains
    faith, hope, love,

    these three;
    but the greatest of these is love.

    Bern :j
  • we are having the lovely love story that someone posted above - i love it
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