We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

How much do you spend on a present for a kids party?

When your child gets invited to a birthday party how much do you spend on the present for the birthday child?

My eldest has started getting a few invitations for parties and I don't want to spend too little or too much so I would like to get an idea what you spend please :)

Comments

  • Xaniwoop
    Xaniwoop Posts: 260 Forumite
    My DDs are 2 1/2 and 5 and I spend around £5 on a classmates birthday, and judging from DD!s last birthday this seems about right. I might go up to £10 for a best friend, but usually I shop around in the sales and build a a stash of £5 value gifts that cost less and save the difference.
  • Lunar_Eclipse
    Lunar_Eclipse Posts: 3,060 Forumite
    edited 14 January 2012 at 6:28PM
    Depends on the age of the child and where you live, to some degree.

    For us: £6-8 was the norm in the infant years, rising to £10-15 now we're at junior school (smaller parties) and then £15-20 for senior school for very close friends or token gifts (lip gloss & sweets) for others when they don't have a party but my (older) DD still wants to acknowledge the birthday which I think is lovely. I've noticed £10 is the normal amount when mine are given money or vouchers, although one girl gave my daughter a £15 voucher this year (for her 10th birthday.)

    I usually shop around to buy value for money. My 10 year old is at a party today, she has taken a £15 present that I bought for just under £7, by pure luck on this occasion. HTH.
  • missmontana
    missmontana Posts: 1,994 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    My son is 9 now, so I have started putting a £5 note in their cards ( I do always check with parents first) or a gift voucher for somewhere like WHSmiths.
    Be who you are, say what you feel, those who mind don't matter, those who matter don't mind.
    They say that talking to yourself is a sign of mental illness. So I talk to the cats instead.
  • balletshoes
    balletshoes Posts: 16,610 Forumite
    Xaniwoop wrote: »
    My DDs are 2 1/2 and 5 and I spend around £5 on a classmates birthday, and judging from DD!s last birthday this seems about right. I might go up to £10 for a best friend, but usually I shop around in the sales and build a a stash of £5 value gifts that cost less and save the difference.

    thats exactly what I used to do too -from around age 3 to around age 7 that works great, as those are the years when there are the most class party invites :).
  • About a fiver - I often buy books from the Book People and you can get some decent sets for that price.
  • DaisyFlower
    DaisyFlower Posts: 2,677 Forumite
    Anything between £7-£15 depending on the child, most seem to spend between those amounts.
  • victory
    victory Posts: 16,188 Forumite
    £5 they have annuals for £1 everywhere now and BOGOF on some fab books and the works has books from 49p great bargains to be had out there:D
    misspiggy wrote: »
    I'm sure you're an angel in disguise Victory :)
  • cutestkids
    cutestkids Posts: 1,670 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    Around £5.00 usually buy a colouring book, crayons pens etc or Tesco does really good art and craft sets for between £1.99 and £4.99.
    1 Sealed Pot Challenge # 1480
    2 Stopped Smoking 28/08/2011
    3 Joined Payment A Day Challenge 3/12/2011
    4 One debt vs 100 days part 15 £579.62/ £579.62New challenge £155.73/£500
    5 Pay off as much as you can in 2013 challenge!£6609.20 / £7500
  • sweetdaisy
    sweetdaisy Posts: 1,249 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    DS1 is 3.5 years old and we have two birthday parties to go to next week! I tend to spend around £5-7 on a present. I often get good presents in Home Bargains for £5 such as Play-Doh sets, Colouring sets or Books.
  • mammyof7
    mammyof7 Posts: 130 Forumite
    I usually put £5 in a card unless its for a very good/ best friend where I give £10.

    My youngest son attended a party this week of a classmate (whom I didn't even know) and I gave our usual fiver and a card. My older son (who took him) then informed me that I was extremely stingy and mean in "only" giving a fiver!!

    My daughter attended the sleepover party of her bf yesterday and we gave her £10 and a small present (bought for £2.50). So really it depends on how close of a friend it is.
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 354.5K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.4K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.4K Spending & Discounts
  • 247.4K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 604.2K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.5K Life & Family
  • 261.7K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.