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Claiming DLA and Esa

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  • mazza111
    mazza111 Posts: 6,327 Forumite
    You will probably find this is where counselling will come in hon, small baby steps, one at a time. It's not an easy battle fighting depression, but one step at a time and you can do it.
    4 Stones and 0 pounds or 25.4kg lighter :j
  • bestpud
    bestpud Posts: 11,048 Forumite
    colpol1 wrote: »
    I wasn't really able to talk about much with him, it was all very quick and I was in tears finally talking about it to somebody..he just asked me how is it affecting work/college ect..and I said feeling like this has a huge impact on it,told him I couldn't do it, he then give me anti depressant prescription and told me to book an appointment again as the course finishes, which is a month so I think then I will speak to him more about it because I dont feel like I told him everything, only about half. :( but thank you, I am glad I did it and I hope I can get through this after all these years.

    A month!!! That's a long time!

    It might be useful to book a double appointment if you need more time.
  • gingergee
    gingergee Posts: 918 Forumite
    Thats exactly what i thought!!!!! When i was first put on them i had to go back in 2 weeks, to see how i was doing. Must be a practise to practise thing????
    The feeling i got when i confirmed my place studying criminology at Exeter Uni was brilliant!!!!!

    The pride my children told me they had in me was even better!!!!! # setting positive example to children is OUTSTANDING!!!! !:grouphug::grouphug::smileyhea:smileyhea:smileyhea:smileyhea:smileyhea:smileyhea:smileyhea
  • peainapod
    peainapod Posts: 264 Forumite
    So do you really think that someone should be able to claim benefits for a medical condition (whether mental or physical) that they have made no attempt to seek treatment for?

    As far as employers go, I had no problem at all getting several jobs (both public and private sector, professional and clerical levels) a few years after taking ill health retirement on the grounds of depression. I've also had many clients who returned to work without too much difficulty after treatment and recovery.

    Believe me, there really is far less stigma attached to mental illness these days than you seem to think, fortunately.

    They should be able to claim when not seeking treatment is a symptom of the illness !
  • Oldernotwiser
    Oldernotwiser Posts: 37,425 Forumite
    peainapod wrote: »
    They should be able to claim when not seeking treatment is a symptom of the illness !

    For what condition is not seeking treatment a symptom?

    Perhaps there's also a condition where not applying for benefits is a symptom?
  • For what condition is not seeking treatment a symptom?

    Perhaps there's also a condition where not applying for benefits is a symptom?

    A symptom of i do not meet the criteria for the benefit?
  • "Do not attribute to conspiracy what can adequately be explained by incompetence" - rogerblack
  • sarahg1969
    sarahg1969 Posts: 6,694 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker

    "...Because most with this personality disorder do not see anything wrong with themselves or their lives, most do not seek medical help..."

    In which case, they wouldn't be seeking benefits. Would they?


    Do you think that benefits should be available upon self-diagnosis, without any medical involvement at all? How would that work, in reality?
  • scootw1
    scootw1 Posts: 2,165 Forumite
    sarahg1969 wrote: »
    "...Because most with this personality disorder do not see anything wrong with themselves or their lives, most do not seek medical help..."
    but still expect the state to pay for their miserable little existence. god help me, roll on end of year when I hope that caemaeron et al really hammer the people taking the p**s out of everyone.
  • Oldernotwiser
    Oldernotwiser Posts: 37,425 Forumite
    sarahg1969 wrote: »
    "...Because most with this personality disorder do not see anything wrong with themselves or their lives, most do not seek medical help..."

    In which case, they wouldn't be seeking benefits. Would they?


    Do you think that benefits should be available upon self-diagnosis, without any medical involvement at all? How would that work, in reality?

    I quite agree, that would be totally contradictory.
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