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Husband will not share

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  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,792 Forumite
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    you're right, best not answer me, i cant stand immature name callers like you

    bye bye
    Bye sweet stuff. I'm not sure why ghou l is considered a bad word anyway tbh. :embarasse
    Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.
  • Bye sweet stuff. I'm not sure why ghou l is considered a bad word anyway tbh. :embarasse

    Its not a bad word. It is however insulting and not the best way to express yourself. Just because someone holds a different, valid opinion, from your own didn't require the response you gave.

    We have no idea how much this property is worth it may be 200k it may be over a million. Personally if I owned a property through my own endeavours I would not automatically add someone to the mortgage or deeds, married to them or not.
  • Of course it is insulting, because that's how it was meant to be.

    She is that word, she is far worse than that, she tells people to leave their loved ones for no reason. She has no reason. She likes to provoke turmoil, she loves to make people hurt each other, even though she doesn't know anything about them.
    That's what she is.

    oh give over, if someone leaves their partner because someone on a internet forum told them to they need to get a grip!

    as do you, i am entitled to my opinion as much as the next person
  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,792 Forumite
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    oh give over, if someone leaves their partner because someone on a internet forum told them to they need to get a grip!

    as do you, i am entitled to my opinion as much as the next person
    So your entire defence is that no one should take any notice of you?

    Yes you are entitled to your opinion, just as everyone else is entitled to say you are an ar se.
    Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.
  • So your entire defence is that no one should take any notice of you?

    Yes you are entitled to your opinion, just as everyone else is entitled to say you are an ar se.

    i give my opinion, people can listen to it or not listen to it, i dont care either way, im just saying what i would do in that situation
  • C_Mababejive
    C_Mababejive Posts: 11,668 Forumite
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    LandyAndy wrote: »
    I'm sure there was thread on here recently where a woman wanted to give half of her house to her husband and almost all the advice she received was 'don't do it'.

    Now this OP says she wants a half share in the marital home and the advice seems to be that her OH is wrong not to give it to her.

    ?

    Ah but we are acting for the prosecution now,not the defence :)
    Feudal Britain needs land reform. 70% of the land is "owned" by 1 % of the population and at least 50% is unregistered (inherited by landed gentry). Thats why your slave box costs so much..
  • Errata
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    Of course it is insulting, because that's how it was meant to be.

    She is that word, she is far worse than that, she tells people to leave their loved ones for no reason. She has no reason. She likes to provoke turmoil, she loves to make people hurt each other, even though she doesn't know anything about them.
    That's what she is.
    Don't be daft, Tinks is a poster on an internet forum not Lord of the Universe Who Must Be Obeyed.
    .................:)....I'm smiling because I have no idea what's going on ...:)
  • make_me_wise
    make_me_wise Posts: 1,509 Forumite
    Of course it is insulting, because that's how it was meant to be.

    She is that word, she is far worse than that, she tells people to leave their loved ones for no reason. She has no reason. She likes to provoke turmoil, she loves to make people hurt each other, even though she doesn't know anything about them.
    That's what she is.

    Just when you think someone cant sink any lower :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,792 Forumite
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    Errata wrote: »
    Don't be daft, Tinks is a poster on an internet forum not Lord of the Universe Who Must Be Obeyed.
    A person who posts on an internet forum can still be a horrible person, or is that not true? And I see no reason why I can't say that to them.

    In fact.......... oh yes I can and have.
    Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.
  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,792 Forumite
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    i give my opinion, people can listen to it or not listen to it, i dont care either way, im just saying what i would do in that situation
    I don't believe you.

    You couldn't have gone through a marriage without something happening of the like where you have advised people to leave their OH.
    Because you do it alot.
    Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.
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