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Sometimes I really dislike my DH

There title says it all, really fed up
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  • Linda32
    Linda32 Posts: 4,385 Forumite
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    Well, I've got to ask why. DH is short for Darling Husband isn't it?;) Does that tell you anything?

    Are you willing to say anymore? :)
  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,789 Forumite
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    Bonnie_dog wrote: »
    There title says it all, really fed up
    Well this is going to be a riveting read.........
    Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.
  • Gillyx
    Gillyx Posts: 6,847 Forumite
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    I think we all feel like that from time to time, it passes though :D
    The frontier is never somewhere else. And no stockades can keep the midnight out.
  • dogcat_2
    dogcat_2 Posts: 21,401 Forumite
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    Whats the problem?
  • its not much but its blown out of proportion he is not working and I am full time so today I sat down after the ironing and he took the dog out I was still sitting down when he got back, I am now the lazyist person in history, I just mentioned that maybe I deserved to do nothing one day a week and all hell broke loose
  • jenhug
    jenhug Posts: 2,277 Forumite
    kick him in the nuts. or, if you want something less obvious wash his mug up in the toilet!
  • jojo1969
    jojo1969 Posts: 642 Forumite
    omg you sound just like me,im even looking into moving out as he is doing my nut in we havnt spoken for a week
    thanks to all who post xx
    positive thinking :) actifry,slimming world meals,2 adult bikes,£50 iceland vouchers
  • I know I am now thinking of different versions of the D in DH I can't print most of them,
    He is really doing my head in, and I am starving cos I told him to stuff his tea (he had made Chicken Roast)
  • balletshoes
    balletshoes Posts: 16,610 Forumite
    Bonnie_dog wrote: »
    its not much but its blown out of proportion he is not working and I am full time so today I sat down after the ironing and he took the dog out I was still sitting down when he got back, I am now the lazyist person in history, I just mentioned that maybe I deserved to do nothing one day a week and all hell broke loose

    all hell broke loose on both sides? have to say i'd probably hit the roof, and feel totally justified doing it, if my OH said something like that to me in those circumstances. sometimes it does a relationship good to have a good row, but if its happening a lot or its grinding you down, maybe getting some space from each other would be an idea for a short while.
  • Oldernotwiser
    Oldernotwiser Posts: 37,425 Forumite
    Bonnie_dog wrote: »
    I know I am now thinking of different versions of the D in DH I can't print most of them,
    He is really doing my head in, and I am starving cos I told him to stuff his tea (he had made Chicken Roast)

    Well, if he cooked dinner, he's obviously doing some things to pull his weight. Bear in mind that being unemployed can be a very dispiriting proposition.
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