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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 11

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  • antonic
    antonic Posts: 1,978 Forumite
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    You can stop drinking - in my case at the worst I was drinking 24/36 cans of Stella over a weekend (Fri - Sun).

    I did this even while I was on my DMP (Debt Management Plan) and it took me until Oct 2011 to realise that

    a) I was doing my health any good with my drinking ( I am a type 2 Diabetic) and
    b) It was ruining me financially

    and that point I stopped drinking and I have been alcohol free since Oct 2011.

    Be strong you CAN do it !!
    openscreen wrote: »
    Well, update from me. went to bed at 3.30am Got up at 8.00am. finished last 3 cans of Stella. Went to shop for newsapaper & 2 cans of pre-mixed G&T. Drank those, went back to bed, got up for a while. Went to shop for 6 cans of stella. drank 2 in car. drank 3 ( can't remember), went to bed again at 6pm, just woke up having last one now. Wife asleep, this is stupid. Got to take charge. Wish me luck
  • shaggydoo
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    365days wrote: »
    Just popping in to say that when I wake up in the morning I will be 3 years AF. Who would of thought it??? Certainly not me!
    Happy+3rd+Anniversary.jpg


    :T:T:T:T:T:T:T:T:T:T:T
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    October :-

    icon-big.gif = 7 Days AF

    yay.gif= 14 days AF

    Smiley.AutumnLeafSwingingAni.gif= 21 days AF

    angel-smiley-004.gif = 28 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifyaysmilesa-smiley.gif = 31 days AF

    smiley_autumn.gif= target achieved




    CheesedOff /20
    Chocolate Cupcake
    15/15
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    CuppaTea 4/20

    Idristhedragon 5/20

    Mackeroo 15/12 icon-big.gifsmiley_autumn.gifyay.gif
    Maman 12/10 icon-big.gifsmiley_autumn.gif

    Markman /8
    Pippi 8/21 icon-big.gif
    Satchmo 14/20 icon-big.gifyay.gif
    Shaggy 25/17 icon-big.gifyay.gifsmiley_autumn.gifSmiley.AutumnLeafSwingingAni.gif
    Tracy 17/15 icon-big.gifyay.gifsmiley_autumn.gif

    TrainingDad
    1/20


    Unself /12

    WBF 5/10

    41 3/20




    PLEASE PUT YOUR TARGET AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT and good luck! (and if I've made any mistakes, don't be shy, please let me know!)

    EVERYONE WELCOME
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    NOVEMBER 2012

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    Everyone Welcome.
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    November :-

    icon-big.gif = 7 Days AF

    dance2.gif= 14 days AF

    Smiley.AutumnLeafSwingingAni.gif= 21 days AF

    angel-smiley-004.gif = 28 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifyaysmilesa-smiley.gif = 31 days AF

    smiley_autumn.gif= target achieved



    Chocolate Cupcake


    CuppaTea /15

    Gien /17

    Idristhedragon


    Mackeroo


    Maman
    /10


    Pippi

    Satchmo

    Shaggy /17

    Tracy

    TrainingDad


    WBF

    41




    PLEASE PUT YOUR TARGET AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT and good luck! (and if I've made any mistakes, don't be shy, please let me know!)

    EVERYONE WELCOME
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • 365days
    365days Posts: 1,347 Forumite
    openscreen wrote: »
    Well, update from me. went to bed at 3.30am Got up at 8.00am. finished last 3 cans of Stella. Went to shop for newsapaper & 2 cans of pre-mixed G&T. Drank those, went back to bed, got up for a while. Went to shop for 6 cans of stella. drank 2 in car. drank 3 ( can't remember), went to bed again at 6pm, just woke up having last one now. Wife asleep, this is stupid. Got to take charge. Wish me luck

    Yep time to do something. Unfortunately some people cant take charge however much they want to. Think King canute trying to turn back the tide. For some people they are as powerless over alcohol as he was over the sea. I have said it before and will say it again; this book kind of saved my life.
    http://www.nobigdeal.org.uk/

    I would wish you luck, but unfortunately luck doesn't come into it!!
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  • I have failed my target for October BUT I am not unhappy as I am feeling firmly in control and that I am firmly clutching the stop button with both hands. I have had a couple of really good nights out and NO creeping death feeling the next morning, no blanks, no cringing which is a massive breakthrough. In fact, I have been drinking but havent been drunk :)
    Im going to go for 10 AFDs in November please
    Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.

    £117/ £3951.67
  • tracy_36
    tracy_36 Posts: 312 Forumite
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    19 AF please Shaggy, and a target of 25 for November please :)

    Tomorrow night I am meeting the guy I gave my number to on Fri :eek:
    I will be driving so will be on the lemonade, or soda!

    openscreen - wishing you well on your journey, 365 days mentioned a book, I also read the Allen Carr book, it really helped me to quit for a while and I am definatley more in control now

    Congrats 365days :j:j

    Tracy x
  • maman
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    openscreen wrote: »
    Well, update from me. went to bed at 3.30am Got up at 8.00am. finished last 3 cans of Stella. Went to shop for newsapaper & 2 cans of pre-mixed G&T. Drank those, went back to bed, got up for a while. Went to shop for 6 cans of stella. drank 2 in car. drank 3 ( can't remember), went to bed again at 6pm, just woke up having last one now. Wife asleep, this is stupid. Got to take charge. Wish me luck

    You're obviously aware you need to do something or you wouldn't be posting. Are these daily drinking habits or just weekends? I'd advise trying just one AF day and building from there but if that's a daily intake maybe cold turkey would be too much. Keep posting.:)

    Good to hear from you idris. I know what you mean about control. I'm likely to end up with about half a month AF, which I'm pleased with but knowing I've been to two family weddings without a hint of any embarassing behaviour and no hangovers pleases me immensely.:D
  • mackeroo
    mackeroo Posts: 806 Forumite
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    16 AF please Shaggy and setting a target of 16 for Nov please

    Wishing you luck Openscreen, keep posting on here, it has helped many including myself in lots of ways
    It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts
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