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D day has arrived (almost).. worrying hugely.

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  • chocolate.buttons
    chocolate.buttons Posts: 51 Forumite
    Didn't want to read and run.
    Good luck, good luck, good luck :).
    xx
  • January20
    January20 Posts: 3,769 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    I just want to wish you good luck too :)
    LBM: August 2006 £12,568.49 - DFD 22nd March 2012
    "The road to DF is long and bumpy" GreenSaints
  • princessdreamer
    princessdreamer Posts: 416 Forumite
    We are all right behind you, when you feel weak remember there are 1,000's of us going through similar day in day out with abusive exs. We are strong people, stronger than we ever believed we were and we (you) can stand up to him. Liars seldom win.
    mortgage free by christmas 2014 owed £5,000, jan 2014 £4,170, £4,060, feb £3,818 march £3,399 30% of the way there woohoo
    If you don't think you can go on look back and see how far you've come
  • busiscoming2
    busiscoming2 Posts: 4,461 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    Rainbow - be strong, hold your head up high, take deep breaths to calm you down and you will be fine. You are better than him and the court will see that.

    I had to do the court thing with my ex albeit access rather than residency. He lied and told tales about me, but the court saw through him. They aren't daft :)
  • marywooyeah
    marywooyeah Posts: 2,670 Forumite
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    good luck OP! Judges see through lies hun, they will look at all the evidence and statements etc and make the right decision - remember, the Court has the children's best interests in mind.
  • princessdreamer
    princessdreamer Posts: 416 Forumite
    How did it go?
    mortgage free by christmas 2014 owed £5,000, jan 2014 £4,170, £4,060, feb £3,818 march £3,399 30% of the way there woohoo
    If you don't think you can go on look back and see how far you've come
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    Hope it all went ok. Rollers and rolling pin still on standby if you need them! x
  • January20
    January20 Posts: 3,769 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Just checking in to see if there are any news. Hope you're ok and everything went your way.
    LBM: August 2006 £12,568.49 - DFD 22nd March 2012
    "The road to DF is long and bumpy" GreenSaints
  • busiscoming2
    busiscoming2 Posts: 4,461 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    January20 wrote: »
    Just checking in to see if there are any news. Hope you're ok and everything went your way.

    Me too. hope it was all OK :)
  • Seanymph
    Seanymph Posts: 2,882 Forumite
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    Thinking of you today.
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