Tesco Discussion Chat & Grabbits 11+ Xmas/New Year Edition

QPR10

Beki88 wrote: »

*hugs* make sure you rest it up! Hope it isnt too bad hun x

I'm scared to go to bed I have a few bruises & swollen ankle its going to be so stiff in the morning & its my good ankle no Tesco this weekend but I got my free cheese earlier, bright red packet & it still took me ages to find it

QPR10

Issyc wrote: »

I was just joking in my last post! Hope you are okay. xx

Thanks it made me laugh :beer:, I was carrying a half full glass bottle of fizzy water, so lucky I didn't break it, could have been nasty

zippydooda

sunshinestar101 wrote: »

if its for the kids - its worth keeping a happy head on. - it used to be the only thing that kapt me going at times. x

but i socialised with her x not knowing till the last few weeks what he had done in the past. i thought he had looked after them when he had not. but i got the best thanks any step dad could get when the eldest 27 wanted me to give her away. as she knew me better not seeing her dad that often. even though i nearly strangled her over her last boy friend. now she knows i had the upset because i love her. im nearly crying now so good night.:o:o

HappyChappy84

zippydooda wrote: »

hi hc im p155ed already. crack open another can with me. thhe night shift is just starting.

Oh go on then, might as well crack one open.

Raven

caz2703 wrote: »

Sorry DS was sick again so been away cleaning up.

I don't take offense at what has been said by anyone but I don't have a relationship with his parents. I only ever saw them a couple of times a year and after a 5 hour 'conversation' with his mother when she told me I should basically be grateful to have her son, I don't want one either (I should accept that I pay for everything for the kids including my step-child, as well as buy all the food and pay half the bills as he paid to do up HIS house before I moved in). I haven't heard a word from his parents bar that phonecall. They know the reasons why we split, they know what my ex gets up to in his spare time (and it isn't tiddlywinks) but they want nothing to do with me yet are happy to fawn over his 1st ex-wife. I was never wanted and I really don't care.

DS is being sick however so I'm not sending him out as I know from last time the grandparents were over, DS spent the time cowering in the corner and wouldn't go near them. If he's not well and stuck in a house with people he doesn't want to be with that would break my heart. They're not innocent in our break up but not going into detail on here. If they'd been grown-up about this, tried to maintain some channel of communication with me like they did their 1st DIL then I'd have no problem asking them around here but given the circumstances, you'll forgive me for not wanting to go out of my way.

Raven, your idea is a good one but in reality not possible.
Sunshinestar, your heart is in the right place but if you knew all the detail, you wouldn't be so kind. Oh and thankfully the boys aren't old enough to know what's going on, the eldest being 2, the youngest isn't even 1.

I'm also out well over £1000 on legal fees as the ex refuses to accept a judge telling him no. The contact order has dragged on for 3 months now and that money could have put food on the table or paid the bills and what do I have to show for it? More court dates to fill up the rest of the month. This is why I enjoy and need MSE so much as if it weren't for the glitches, bargains, DTDs and banter, I'd be skint and be down in the dumps. Because of this wonderful forum I can afford nappies & wipes thanks to glitches, I can afford food because of whoopsies, I have some cracking toys because of the 90% sale and I have stuff I'd never be able to afford because of DTD.

I hear what your saying . . . . and wont begin to put myself in your situation.


All I will add is, while its realistic - take the higher ground if possible - its the only way to retain your sanity in the long run but only if you believe it will suit the kids after all is said and done.

zippydooda

Issyc wrote: »

Ooops! I've always thought you were a female! Sorry!

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sorry no. i always wonder if we all would recognise each other in the real world. we all have our own images of each other. i must say though even though i had never met mogchops, by the way she acted in my ts i knew it was her. and she jumped when i said her name. yet to meet madison.

CookieRaider

sunshinestar101 wrote: »

eh??? - whats happened there?? - i was on 700+ posts...... now its gone down???? why did that happen?? - i want my medal

You sound like a HUKD person wanting a badge

zippydooda

HappyChappy84 wrote: »

Oh go on then, might as well crack one open.

you had to come out of lurkdom b4 i caught up. welcome hc

CookieRaider

:beer:

HappyChappy84 wrote: »

Oh go on then, might as well crack one open.

:beer: Cheers HC mines a bud if ur buying

zippydooda

QPR10 wrote: »

So did I.

Can I ask anyone still up for a big hug, I was moaning about my knee earlier today, tonight I fell over in the Harvester Car Park, I'm not sure how but 6 lads ran to pick me up & there is now a big dent in the carpark

QPR can i ask you what you think our chances(swindon) of beating wigan in the fa cup. score prediction please. i honestly believe 1-0 to swindon.
ps our only time in the top flight and we beat you twice.(how old am i)