Starting again, with a positve attitude this time ..

Hiddenidenity

Aesop wrote: »

did notice you were posting at 2am

can you just ignore your mum?

hugs xx

I should, I should learn after this long whats she is like a selfish cow :mad::mad: She called late last night crying in bits over her partner (my dad died 2 years ago and shes been with him nearly 2 years so Im not "happy" with them both really anyway) Anyway she was slagging him for everything and going on in the end I said I'd do something with her today. So this morning comes and guess what Oh shes going somewhere with him and his daughter now :mad:

Im not gelous of it Id rather her not come here, but to be on the phoine till gone 1 ranting and crying then decide to call again at 5am still upset to tell me at 9 when Id already been waiting over an hour with the kids she isnt coming :mad:

Aesop

Hiddenidenity wrote: »

Im not gelous of it Id rather her not come here, but to be on the phoine till gone 1 ranting and crying then decide to call again at 5am still upset to tell me at 9 when Id already been waiting over an hour with the kids she isnt coming :mad:

selfish woman. especially knowing with 2 kids, once you get them ready and tell them they are going out, you can't undo it! you need to tell her how you feel that she kept you awake, and now let the kids and you down by not coming as agreed.

Hiddenidenity

Aesop wrote: »

selfish woman. especially knowing with 2 kids, once you get them ready and tell them they are going out, you can't undo it! you need to tell her how you feel that she kept you awake, and now let the kids and you down by not coming as agreed.

I should learn to not rely on her keeping to her word

Anyway I shouldn't keep moaning should I lol xx

Aesop

Hiddenidenity wrote: »

I should learn to not rely on her keeping to her word

Anyway I shouldn't keep moaning should I lol xx

your diary, you moan away, anyway better out than in! I read depression is anger turned inwards, so believe in venting

ScarlettOHara_2

sorry to hear about your problems with your mum its annoying when you want them to be the grown up and they act like kids.

Did you manage to do something nice with the kids anyway?

Hiddenidenity

Aesop wrote: »

your diary, you moan away, anyway better out than in! I read depression is anger turned inwards, so believe in venting

Oh I believe I have a lot of both of them :rotfl:

ScarlettOHara wrote: »

sorry to hear about your problems with your mum its annoying when you want them to be the grown up and they act like kids.

Did you manage to do something nice with the kids anyway?

We haven't done much Kids happily sat at table playing with playdough, which will give me cleaning to do later :rotfl: I actually have nothing to do, I can't even find anything to do

Hiddenidenity

What a boring but relaxed day! We have done nothing but play with the kids toys all day lazy me!

Tea, bath and bed the kiddies then I think I should re look over my budgets get a date in place I will aim to be debt free by. Its also not nice to keep my friend in the dark about when/how I can pay her back :o This worrys me and I loose a lot of sleep over owing her money and not being able to repay her x

ScarlettOHara_2

Hiddenidenity wrote: »

What a boring but relaxed day! We have done nothing but play with the kids toys all day lazy me!

Tea, bath and bed the kiddies then I think I should re look over my budgets get a date in place I will aim to be debt free by. Its also not nice to keep my friend in the dark about when/how I can pay her back :o This worrys me and I loose a lot of sleep over owing her money and not being able to repay her x

Is it a lot of money you owe your friend? Sounds like a really nice day tbh.

Hiddenidenity

ScarlettOHara wrote: »

Is it a lot of money you owe your friend? Sounds like a really nice day tbh.

£290 she is the only friend I owe now, and tbh she is the person I have owed longest.

Hovel_lady

Hiddenidenity wrote: »

What a boring but relaxed day! We have done nothing but play with the kids toys all day lazy me!

Tea, bath and bed the kiddies then I think I should re look over my budgets get a date in place I will aim to be debt free by. Its also not nice to keep my friend in the dark about when/how I can pay her back :o This worrys me and I loose a lot of sleep over owing her money and not being able to repay her x

Sorry to hear about the problems with your mum. Some people really do make you :mad: don't they?
Can you talk to your friend about your worries about paying her back? I'm sure she wouldn't want you worrying about it.

Have you not done any cleaning then today?? :eek: