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  • Hovel_lady
    Hovel_lady Posts: 4,291 Forumite
    Hiddenidenity wrote: »
    Thank you for all the replies :)

    I will reply to all in a minute Im having a bad day, my friends little girl passed away this morning and it brings back unwanted memories and thoughts :(
    So sorry to hear that.
    ((Hugs)) for you and them xx
  • beanielou
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    Sorry to hear todays news.
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  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Thank you :) x

    Well updated spreadsheets and I cant wait for January to be over, Febuary isn't much better although its mine and daughters birthday :eek: That came around fase :rotfl:

    The forms for ESA came today and I dont know where to start :o Will need to make a start on it soon tho :rotfl:
  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 21,922 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear about your friend. It must be heartbreaking.
    "If you can dream it, you can do it". Walt Disney
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    jwil wrote: »
    Sorry to hear about your friend. It must be heartbreaking.

    Thank you I feel so awful, I kept saying I would go and visit (she was 10 weeks early) but I just couldnt go and face it. How selfish does that make me
  • Aesop
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    Hiddenidenity wrote: »
    Thank you I feel so awful, I kept saying I would go and visit (she was 10 weeks early) but I just couldnt go and face it. How selfish does that make me

    it doesn't make you selfish. It makes you emphatic to how she is feeling and it is hard when you are a mother, to hear that someone else has lost their child. My friend lost her 2nd son at 9 days old, this time 2011. She gave birth to a beautiful baby girl yesterday, they didn't want to wait, so they started trying very early.

    It has been hard for me trying to be supportive as I didn't fully understand what she was going through.
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Ok so I decided to move the kitchen round again I've lost count how many times I have done it these last few weeks :rotfl:

    I carried the dryer upstairs :eek: Not a bright idea on my own :o Oh well its done now and the kitchen looks much better :T
  • ScarlettOHara_2
    ScarlettOHara_2 Posts: 312 Forumite
    Hi HI

    Sorry to hear your news, hope you are feeling better. Be careful with the lifting - get your new years eve buddy round to help ;)
    As God is my witness, as God is my witness they're not going to lick me. I'm going to live through this and when it's all over, I'll never be hungry again
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    ScarlettOHara wrote: »
    Hi HI

    Sorry to hear your news, hope you are feeling better. Be careful with the lifting - get your new years eve buddy round to help ;)

    Ahh I wish I could :( I actually miss him :o lol
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Well sat waiting for Big Brother now all my cleanings done :D x I still haven't filled the form in :o x
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