Starting again, with a positve attitude this time ..

ScarlettOHara_2

Just checking in - hope the move is relatively pain free and you get settled quickly. At least with being in a council house you should have a decent land lord for once.

Hiddenidenity

ScarlettOHara wrote: »

Just checking in - hope the move is relatively pain free and you get settled quickly. At least with being in a council house you should have a decent land lord for once.

Thats what Im hoping I can see me settling there for quite a long time, it doesnt matter what its like now I can make it nice over time at least the worrys there will be alot less. On the final stretch of debt now and the end is in sight x

Hiddenidenity

Hello all hope all is well?

Not much going on really waiting for a call from the council to go in and sign some paperwork, and for the first time ever I will be having house insurance

I need to do a food shop Thursday so I should get on with meal planning for the month really. Although not knowing when I will be moving its difficult becuase I wont have a cooker etc when I first move

Aesop

Do you have a microwave? Or can you get one for when you move? You can cook a chicken, heat soup etc. X

Hiddenidenity

Aesop wrote: »

Do you have a microwave? Or can you get one for when you move? You can cook a chicken, heat soup etc. X

Hello

I do, and Im going to borrow friends slow cooker I wonder if I can borrow his cooker and everythign else too :rotfl::rotfl:

I just want to get the move started now all waiting on the councils hands the lanlords ready for me to move out whenever I wantm without any extra charges This is only becuase she wants to have some major work done here then they are moving there relative in.

Well Im hoping to be debt free in the next 6 weeks if everything goes through ok :T:T Although then I will be paying my friend £25 a week back (that he doesnt want :rotfl:) Until I feel I have paid back what Ive took from him

Really need to get on with meal planning and sorting budgets etc for April Im so behind :eek:

But on the packing front nearly all done bar the thing we need until we actually move

Cherryjack

SO excited for you :-) what a lovely update to catch up on...gosh you really have done some packing lately.. but i think it was all ment to be and very true..you simply had no time for a job just now...x

maid_in_cornwall

Have followed you diary from the start and just wanted to pop in and say you amaze me! Well done on all the repayments, and very well done on bringing up two children by yourself when you have been so poorly.

I hope the house move is quick and easy, and I hope you have a long happy life in the new house with your two little ones
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This is your life starting again! And the very best of luck. :j

Hiddenidenity

Thank you

As the days goes on Im feeling happier about the new house, like you say it really is the opportunity to start a new life. Without needing any of my family for anything.

Me and mum had a major row again this morning (this is only the 2nd time we have been in touch since moving here!) Its coming up to 3 years since my Dad passed away and I feel we should do something with his ashes, I dont feel hes at rest while there sat in the garden. However she started ranting there going to her new house, Which is with her partner who tbh isnt comfortable with it, but doesnt mind. I wouldnt mind if she loved him, she liked him. She hated him and put us through hell growing up. My sister agrees he should be put to rest especially now mums moved on with a new partner (which she met just weeks after him passing) Dont get me wrong her new partners lovely how he copes with her I will never know!!

I have a feeling I am a bit wrong but surely me and my sister should have some input on what happens.

Jox

Hi, just want to say well done for how far you have come and thanks for sharing your journey, it is an inspiration!
I too have to decide what to do with ashes, my grandmothers, my mum doesn't want to talk about it so at the moment I have my grandmother's ashes in my wardrobe and one day when I have a house and garden I will put them under a rose bush!
I hope you and your family can talk about this issue and come to a decision that you all agree with (it is a very emotional subject)

Hiddenidenity

Jox wrote: »

Hi, just want to say well done for how far you have come and thanks for sharing your journey, it is an inspiration!
I too have to decide what to do with ashes, my grandmothers, my mum doesn't want to talk about it so at the moment I have my grandmother's ashes in my wardrobe and one day when I have a house and garden I will put them under a rose bush!
I hope you and your family can talk about this issue and come to a decision that you all agree with (it is a very emotional subject)

Thank you

It seems the ashes are going with her, Im not going to argue with her over it even though me or my sister dont agree with ehr but I suppose its up to her xx