moral dilemma!

barjam_2

i wouldnt hesitate in telling my brother......... as you say if he finds out you already knew how do you think he would feel... try and imagine if it was you and your bro didnt tell you

seven-day-weekend

In the situation you have described, I would definitely tell my brother, and I would also tell her that I was going to tell him.

AFAIK, they are not married and she has no right to HIS savings (if they are in his name) if she's spent all her money.

Don't let her stitch him up.

Bossyboots

I would have told my brother too. I can't really understand why she let on what she had done either unless she actually wanted the brother to be told.

hobo28

I also would tell. Not only is what she doing immoral. Its quite possibly also illegal. If she has obtained his passwords and he hasn't given her permission to access his accounts then I'm sure thats an offence under the computer misuse act. Its no different to a hacker hacking into my bank account.

He also needs to know what she's really like and I wouldn't lose an ounce of sleep over it. Hopefully he will see sense before its too late and get rid of her.