We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING: Hello Forumites! In order to help keep the Forum a useful, safe and friendly place for our users, discussions around non-MoneySaving matters are not permitted per the Forum rules. While we understand that mentioning house prices may sometimes be relevant to a user's specific MoneySaving situation, we ask that you please avoid veering into broad, general debates about the market, the economy and politics, as these can unfortunately lead to abusive or hateful behaviour. Threads that are found to have derailed into wider discussions may be removed. Users who repeatedly disregard this may have their Forum account banned. Please also avoid posting personally identifiable information, including links to your own online property listing which may reveal your address. Thank you for your understanding.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

What happens when parents die?

135

Comments

  • Gwhiz
    Gwhiz Posts: 2,322 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I hear the money grabbing kids get nothing. Hope that helps ;)
  • If the OP is one of the children I think it would be just & charitable for everything to be left to Battersea dog's home.

    People should leave their money to whoever or whatever they see fit - grandkids, poor decent neighbors, the loyal mistress or toy-boy (or both), cat's protection league, the socialist liberation front.

    Kids should expect nothing & love their parents.

    I"ve told my lads I'm drinking all my money.

    That way the kids might grow up self sufficient & try harder.

    Cheers!! (Takes large swig....)
  • debsue
    debsue Posts: 467 Forumite
    Dont forget the old sayng "where there's a will, there's a relative" :)
  • zzzLazyDaisy
    zzzLazyDaisy Posts: 12,497 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    OP, if it helps you, I can tell you that I fully intend to sell my house and spend my son's inheritance before I die. I am not sure what percentage of the population I am, but anyway, its a start....
    I'm a retired employment solicitor. Hopefully some of my comments might be useful, but they are only my opinion and not intended as legal advice.
  • paddedjohn
    paddedjohn Posts: 7,512 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    G_M wrote: »
    31% give their house to their children in their will
    43% have no house.
    12% have no will, but the house goes to the children anyway
    7% have no will, and the house goes to someone else.
    3% sell their house in the 2 weeks before their death, and give the money to their children.
    1% sell their house in the 2 weeks before their death, and give the money to someone else.
    3% sell their house in the 2 months before their death, and give the money to someone else.
    1% sell their house in the 2 months before their death, and give the money to someone else.

    I know its tongue in cheek but i make that lot 101%;)
    Be Alert..........Britain needs lerts.
  • Gwhiz
    Gwhiz Posts: 2,322 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I've told my parents to enjoy all there hard gotten gains and spend every penny.

    I fail to understand why any loving child would expect anything to be left to them?
  • begbeer
    begbeer Posts: 225 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    Made out my will recently, leaving a proportion to grandchildren to have when they are 30, only to be told by solicitor that son could contest the will as have left nothing to him and grandchildren can access interest on their inheritance from the age of 18
    what was the point of making my wishes known!
  • About a decade ago my dad took me to one side and told me:

    "One day my son all this will be yours"...he then pointed at a his business term loan statement!!!

    He was true to his word at 15 months after he died I am still trying to sort all the mess out!!!
  • tyllwyd
    tyllwyd Posts: 5,496 Forumite
    Gwhiz wrote: »
    I've told my parents to enjoy all there hard gotten gains and spend every penny.

    I fail to understand why any loving child would expect anything to be left to them?

    Well these cases do come to court sometimes, like this one ....
    http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/8419150/Daughter-cut-out-of-mothers-will-for-naming-her-child-badly.html
  • Errata
    Errata Posts: 38,230 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    begbeer wrote: »
    Made out my will recently, leaving a proportion to grandchildren to have when they are 30, only to be told by solicitor that son could contest the will as have left nothing to him and grandchildren can access interest on their inheritance from the age of 18
    what was the point of making my wishes known!
    Leave him a tenner and he will have no grounds to contest, unless he's wholly supported by you which I assume he isn't.
    .................:)....I'm smiling because I have no idea what's going on ...:)
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352.3K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.6K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.3K Spending & Discounts
  • 245.3K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 601K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.5K Life & Family
  • 259.1K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.