The “how many paydays ‘til Xmas” November NSD challenge

slowlyfading

frodo - sorry to hear your news, thinking of you.

NSD 3 for me today

Knitting_Nora

Frodobaggins wrote: »

Spend day for me as I had to have our dog put to sleep. Feel really sad but I know I did the right thing for her, but that doesn't make it any easier.:(

*hugs* Had to do it myself this time last year. Echoing others, but be gentle with yourself for a while - brave decisions are rarely easy.

Nora.x

ashleighsalem

NSD no 2 - due to planning shopping yesteday

Betsie2010

Sorry to hear about your dog Froodo - can only echo what others have said about it being the right decision and send you lots of hugs.

NSD # 2

Butti

blindtoast wrote: »

Hi B

Can you renew the book over the phone? So you can read the end of it and not get a fine?

No, somebody is waiting for it so it won't renew!

Sorry to hear about your dog Frodo. That is really sad. Take care of yourself.

NSD no. 1 please,

B x

freebyfifty

I'm so sorry Frodo, sending you a big ((((((hug))))))



Is it too early in the day to declare NSD #3 (3 in a row)?

IF

Evening NSD'ers :hello:


Spoony got my 2nd NSD today, thank you xx

solventsoon wrote: »

Hi lovely NSD gang:A
As you can see there is lots of activity on this challenge at the moment and it's difficult sometimes to see how many NSDs you're all declaring on posts.
Could I ask you to highlight your number of NSDs in a colour and in bold so that I can see them easily when I whizz through the posts - red would be best but I don't really mind as long as I can see the numbers easily.

Some helpful suggestions and ideas to follow below from our sponsor and godmother, BigMummaF :A

NO SPEND CHALLENGE.

1. Have a good, long think about what YOU want to include in your Spend & Excluded categories.
Some of us count everything from Direct Debits & school expenses, while others do not include things like essential Bills or emergency medical costs. If you plan what is or is not a Spend for you now, it will help you decide on a realistic Target.
2. It is NOT a race!
We all have very different demands on our time & bank balance, so please do not think you have to buy everything on 1st January & make it last till 31st December! A few of us have been following this Challenge for a long...long...LONG time so have developed plans & ploys to help us along the way
3. Most important of all, WE..DO..NOT..FAIL!
Sometimes we can't quite reach our Target, but that is fine Everyone knows how Life will try to trip us up, & that is when you will find us here to help you back on to your feet.

OK, an idea of how some of us do things.
1. What you will or will not include as a 'Spend'.
Some people are doing other Challenges too, & don't include the money spent on those for this one.
Some will try to shop for other bits on the days their direct debits etc go out of their bank accounts; they're the real hard core of the bunch & have been l-o-n-g time Nsders so don't panic
Some won't count those annoying last minute demands from school & collections as you can't plan for them in advance, likewise emergency prescriptions or visits to the vet
Personally speaking & providing I don't buy anything else, I don't count parking for hospital appointments.(..but then I usually do my shopping because I'm already out :whistle:)
General thoughts on €bay sales is the buyer has paid P&P so no cost to you
2. It takes Time to reach mega-numbers!
The First suggestion is the first, because a bit of planning will work wonders on your road to your Target. Have a look at Solvent's (aka Spoon:rotfl:) first posts each month for a hefty list of other Threads that may be of help. For example, there's a few giving ideas for packed lunches so you can avoid standing in the queue at the bakers for 45mins of your lunch hour! A good incentive to tweak your healthy eating & the pounds you save will show in your bank balance AND your waistline
It helps to have various 'money pots' for the different costs that happen like Scouts, dinner money, yoga, window cleaner etc etc. The idea is you "spend" all that money in one hit by..:think:..let's say **putting the week's bus fares into the pretty coffee jar, Jo's tumble tots SIZE=2]Weds mornings[/SIZE in the cracked teapot & Ben's £1 coin for the gym locker SIZE=2]Friday lunch[/SIZE in the pocket of the changing bag, on Tuesdays every week when you've got some change from doing the food shop, so an already spendy day. At least four 'spending days' condensed into one (**mine's jam jars for windows, milkman & a bit towards the bills!)
3. Any day the money stays in your pocket is a bonus!
If you look at it as a day you beat the system, you can't help but :j so don't fret it--ENJOY! If nothing else in here, we do manage find something to make us smile

We have virtual outings to wonderful places that never cost us a bean :rotfl:New York, Edinburgh & Brighton have been a couple & Spoon usually pilots the Tardis but you can use your own transport; my personal favourite has been a sit-on lawn mower borrowed from the cricket club The only thing to be aware of is Hubert the donkey who is partial to anything remotely edible but is not yet house-trained

And Remember;
there are no silly questions, so don't be afraid to ask us anything!

The_Dragon

Well not been out today and not spent on-line so I am proudly claiming #2 (and 2 in a row) so getting there :j

donna_dynamo

Hi all reporting my first and second Nsd's for november total is 2 NSDs. Been busy lately but getting no where. Trying to sort out the house before christmas for the influx of presents etc.,

butdoineedit?

Frodobaggins wrote: »

Spend day for me as I had to have our dog put to sleep. Feel really sad but I know I did the right thing for her, but that doesn't make it any easier.:(

((((((((((((((big hugs))))))))))))) Frodo, & even though you know you did the right thing of course it will be hard, be kind to yourself & take as long as you need to grieve...

more ((((((((((big hugs))))))))))) to wannabehermit, it sounds like you needed them today!

No NSD for me, my dad has invited himself round tomorrow, so needed to get something for his tea, he's really not a fan of anything out of the freezer, even my fantastic batch cooking!
Oh well back on the wagon tomorrow