THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs and friends ..... PART 4

mymerrywidow

susan, you will be inundated with well wishers at this tie, but please try and get some peace and quiet, just to reflect and think.


its ok to shout scream and swear these are normal reactions to death.

my late hubby still gets the blame for most things that go wrong in the house!!!

may i send you some flowers? i dont want to intrude on your greif though.
love and hugs

Beki88

:(I have no words for you, you brave woman. I am so glad he went peacefully and with you. Sounds like he was waiting to be alone with you!
I laughed at going to tesco and I am sure he will be smiling down at it too.
Take care of yourself xxx

janicerobson1

I'm so sorry Susan for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. xx

Part_Mouse

I'm so sorry for your loss. Im so glad you were with him at the end and he went peacefuly. x

Ninetails

Dearest Susan

The greatest gift of all is to give love and to be loved in return.

Thinking of you

XX

3Dogs

So_Sad_Angel wrote: »

So sad to hear the news .My thoughts are with you Susan and words are just so difficult to find. Alan was a good man and you had a wonderful life together which is something you will treasure forever.

Please let me know if there is anything I can do...(I`m only an hour away)

Love Carolxx

ps I think he would have smiled knowing that you called in to see Mr Tosco on the way home.

He certainly would

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Thank you Ani - beautiful words :A

hantsindebt wrote: »

Hi Susan,

its really sad that Alan had to pass, but i guess his time was up. I know we will all miss such a kind, caring man that he was but at least the suffering is over and he will be your guardian angel now.

I know words cant ever replace him, but the memories will never fade and he is now at peace.

love and hugs

speak soon

Andy xxxx

ps, did you manage to get any whoopsies at Tosco? :0)

Just a pack of 4 bread buns - I did check .............


Edit: I have tried to get rid of that big empty space after Ani's poem but it won't go - it's 'im I tell you, it's 'im acting up

Fudge_Cake_2

Words will never be enough to convey the sorrow I feel today. But Susan, I want you to know that me and Mum are sending you all our love and willing you the continued strength and courage that you have bore throughout dear Alan's battle.

Though having said this please, please look after yourself. You are so methodical and selfless, you are more than entitled to let go and scream until your heart's content. Please don't feel the need to be strong for everyone else. You have been Superwoman for so long and you must be exhausted.

3Dogs

janicerobson1 wrote: »

I'm so sorry Susan for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. xx

Thanks Janice - I promise that we will still have that coffee in North Shields Tosco one day when I am next up there ..... and I will be

silvercar wrote: »

I lit a virtual candle, for my virtual friend, for Alan.

Others have joined and also lit candles. Tagged "mse" if anyone else wants to do so:

http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=mse

What a beautiful thought - I have lit my candle and passed the link to family and friends - you're an angel :A :A :A

Christmasshopper

Dear Susan, there is an Alan sized hole in all of our hearts today. My thoughts are with you. x

3Dogs

Christmasshopper wrote: »

Dear Susan, there is an Alan sized hole in all of our hearts today. My thoughts are with you. x

:eek: