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THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs and friends ..... PART 4

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  • midwinter
    midwinter Posts: 3,605 Forumite
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    My thoughts are with you.

    Good to read that you were with him, to say your gooodbyes, and to share those last moments of love and memories.
    The mind is like a parachute. It doesn't work unless it's open
  • artypaws
    artypaws Posts: 1,876 Forumite
    So sorry to hear your news - like others I don't have the right words just thoughts and prayers for you both
  • its_a_secret_66
    its_a_secret_66 Posts: 1,318 Forumite
    Dear Mrs 3 Dogs so sorry to hear of Alans passing. I hope you draw comfort from being with him at the end. I know that it can be really peaceful and surreal at the same time. Why does God insist on taking such special people well before they should of gone. We are all here for you . You have had love between you both that some never find in a whole lifetime. lots of love to youx
  • silvercar
    silvercar Posts: 49,621 Ambassador
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    Such sad news. Hugs to Susan. RIP Alan.
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  • MKS
    MKS Posts: 10,328 Forumite
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    So sorry to hear of your loss Susan but so pleased that you were together till the end of your journey. Love like yours doesn't die. Look into the sky and see the brightest stars shining - that will be Alan's love for you.

    Two extra stars are in the skies,
    I know they are Alan's eyes,
    Looking down upon his fold,
    Remembering memories wrapped in gold.



    I actually think that Alan would have smiled at your Tosco visit and thought 'Hat's' the way to do it and don't forget my ice cream!

    Best wishes and hugs. xxxx
  • Bootsalebargains
    Bootsalebargains Posts: 1,700 Forumite
    I'm so sorry to hear about Alan.
    When I 1st joined mse I never thought I'd sit here and cry for someone I've never met but following your story you dont feel like strangers, you could feel the love you felt for each other.
    Alan is at peace now and pain free and he'll always be watching over you.
    september wins - toshiba laptop, timotei shampoo & conditioner, mccains games, pimms picnic blanket.
    october wins - grants tumblers, £20 petrol voucher, sega console, iphone
    novembers wins - £50 on walkers rainy day, £50 itunes voucher
    march wins - dog treats
  • tamilla
    tamilla Posts: 247 Forumite
    I'm so sory Susan. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • :A RIP Mr 3 Dogs :A

    Hugs Susan.

    Even if you know they are going it is still a shock when they do.

    More hugs, I'm crying for you.
    :starmod: DO IT NOW :starmod:
  • Enterprise_1701C
    Enterprise_1701C Posts: 23,414 Forumite
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    I'm sitting here crying my eyes out. So sorry Susan, please feel the big hug I am giving you. At least you were able to be there and hold him, he would have known how much you loved him and that you were there for him.

    We alll love you and feel for you, I just hope you can get through this time. Words are so useless at this time.
    What is this life if, full of care, we have no time to stand and stare
  • MandyLou66
    MandyLou66 Posts: 254 Forumite
    Dear Susan, I am so sad to read that dear Alan has lost his fight.
    Its good that you could be there with him to comfort and support him him just as you have been all the way through.
    I send love and strength to you to help you cope.
    Much love
    ML
    'Neither a lender nor a borrower be'
    Now why didn't I take any notice of the
    second part of that quote!!???
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