📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs and friends ..... PART 4

Options
1277278280282283338

Comments

  • Looby123
    Looby123 Posts: 1,563 Forumite
    wishing you a brighter day today 3dogs and Alan xx

    I hope Alan had a pain free night and you've gotton some well deserved rest xx

    thinking of you both and sendng special elite 11+ hugs xxx
    hoping for a very MSE Ts glitching 2012!
  • ani_26
    ani_26 Posts: 3,700 Forumite
    Just sending you a candle, susan xx


    Within the Church a candle burns
    and somehow you seem to know;
    God's spirit's captured in the flame
    and it won't let Him go.
    And in the window of your Home…
    shines bright candlelight;
    placed there to greet the wanderer
    from the shadows of the night.
    In troubled times, so silently…
    a candle draws us near.
    As we watch it glowing in the darkness…
    its beauty calms our fear.
    A candle burns and scents the air
    with a perfume of its own;
    when you become aware of it…
    you know you're not alone.
    A candle glows within your heart…
    in a secret sanctuary
    where a soul can be remembered…
    into Eternity.
    A candle's flame's not always still…
    sometimes it "bobs about";
    but its light is so encouraging
    when the stars have all gone out.
    Debt free - Is it a state of mind? a state of the Universe? or a state of the bank account?
    free from life wannabe


    Official Petrol Dieter
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    So sorry to hear your latest news, so heartbreaking and thinking of you both.

    x
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,562 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Thanks for sharing that ani.
    Sniff.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • MandyLou66
    MandyLou66 Posts: 254 Forumite
    Crikey its busy on here! So many well deserved good wishes, and such love. Adding mine to it as always.

    Really sad to be reading your latest update Susan, we both know the outcome but never really believe it do we?

    Nick got re-admitted yesterday, he,s not been eating properly last couple of days and had developed a rattly cough, called doc out and she sent us to hospital for x-rays and bloods etc.
    There is a mass of some kind on his lung, not sure yet but should find out today if its just a chest infection, blood clot, pleuresy or the b*st*rd disease having a pop at another organ.

    Shame we don't live closer we could pop to the hospital cafe for a joint blubbing session.

    Take care Susan and as we are always told "make sure you are eating and sleeping, you need to be strong for him" - so much easier said than done when you feel like poo.

    Much love
    ML
    'Neither a lender nor a borrower be'
    Now why didn't I take any notice of the
    second part of that quote!!???
  • JayJay14
    JayJay14 Posts: 1,918 Forumite
    Oh Mandy that is sh!tty news about Nick, pray it is something they can deal with.

    Thinking of you both and Alan and Susan this morning, there are too many tears today. Prayers and hugs.
  • Aesop
    Aesop Posts: 23,773 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Mandy, sorry to hear about Nick. Will be thinking of both of you too today.

    Please don't stop the wonderful messages for 3Doga and Mr 3Dogs. It is lovely to read them and I know Susan will appreciate being able to read them on her diary.
  • mymerrywidow
    mymerrywidow Posts: 4,986 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    susan, please forgive me, i cant read your posts, as they are too close to me, and i do know exactly what your going through. its so hard for you. :(

    alan is in the best place. keep talking to him, hold his hand,and cherish every moment.
    life is like a loo roll. the nearer the end you get, the faster it goes.
  • Westvleteren
    Westvleteren Posts: 4,489 Forumite
    Hope you both had a restful night and the day is brighter. Thinking of you both xx
    Something unexpected happened which made me smile and still continues to make me smile.

    ...............................................

  • miggy
    miggy Posts: 4,328 Forumite
    Found your thread thanks to beanie...

    Just wanted to send hugs and say you're in my thoughts and prayers.

    xxx
    Miggy

    MEMBER OF MIKE'S MOB!
    Every Penny a Prisoner

    This article is about coffeehouse bartenders. For lawyers, see Barrister. (Wikipedia)
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 351.1K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.2K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.6K Spending & Discounts
  • 244.1K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 599.1K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177K Life & Family
  • 257.4K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.