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THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs and friends ..... PART 4

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  • ani_26
    ani_26 Posts: 3,700 Forumite
    I have been wanting to post on here for some time, even though i know your feelings toward me.

    I am genuinely so sorry to hear about Alan and my thoughts have been with you both, for some time. I know its probably difficult for anyone to comprehend how i feel about the way you and Alan must be feeling, and the way i am feeling.

    I was going to post some poetry, but it all seems hypocritical, to say the least, toward my own thoughts.

    Anyway. Cherish every moment with Alan :A

    My thoughts are with you

    With love nh xx
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  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    ani_26 wrote: »
    I have been wanting to post on here for some time, even though i know your feelings toward me.

    I am genuinely so sorry to hear about Alan and my thoughts have been with you both, for some time. I know its probably difficult for anyone to comprehend how i feel about the way you and Alan must be feeling, and the way i am feeling.

    I was going to post some poetry, but it all seems hypocritical, to say the least, toward my own thoughts.

    Anyway. Cherish every moment with Alan :A

    My thoughts are with you

    With love nh xx

    First of all Ani, I just got very frustrated at your apparent repeated failure to listen to reason but I wish you no harm or illwill. I just gave up on trying to help :o I knew that you still had plenty of 'friends' on your diary to help you and I do have a look-in every so often ;)

    So I really do appreciate you posting and expressing your thoughts. I promise that I am cherishing every bit of the time I have left with Alan. We plan to make the most of it and not sit feeling sorry for ourselves, and that is not in anyway a dig at you hun. It is just the way we live our lives. Being positive and enjoying every minute even when faced with such adversity. It is the only way we know to get through this all without going falling apart :cool:

    Wishing you the best and glad to see you still around ;)

    Love x x x
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    We were going to get up early and go down to the auction hall for the sale at 9.30am then down to car boot unit to get out the boxes of stuff that is not for sale so our mate can just open up the units tomorrow, BUT .....................................

    as always, plans change ;) Alan did get up about 8am but wanted to watch the last day of the test match in Sri Lanka so he did that and I had another hour in bed. Good decision as the cricket was very good, with England winning and drawing the series meaning they stay No 1 in the World :j :j

    Watched a bit more telly and then Alan went back to bed for a short nap and I have to wake him about 12.45pm so is up and settled ready to watch Sunderland's match on Sky. We are going to watch that then he is coming down to the car boot yard with me and I will load the boxes into the van so it is all ready in there for tomorrow. His legs were aching when he got up, after yesterday, but it has eased a bit as the morning went on

    Forecast was for rain today but it was dry during the night and sunny this morning. Cloud is building up a bit now though - bet it's raining this afternoon when I am moving those boxes :eek:

    Hope you are all well and the weather is at least ok so you can all enjoy the Easter weekend :D:D

    Oh, and Eric the Postie has just been and delivered those moc's, so many thanks Aesop. I am sure you will understand if I say Stampie met Frankie on the way here ;) :rotfl: :rotfl: :(
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • Aesop
    Aesop Posts: 23,773 Forumite
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    3Dogs wrote: »
    His legs were aching when he got up, after yesterday, but it has eased a bit as the morning went on


    Oh, and Eric the Postie has just been and delivered those moc's, so many thanks Aesop. I am sure you will understand if I say Stampie met Frankie on the way here ;) :rotfl: :rotfl: :(

    oh dear about Alan's legs. Hope the turmeric starts working soon.

    It was very cloudy here this morning, am taking DS to the fair, better get a wiggle on, but sun creeping out now.

    Pleased you got moc today, not sure if any offers on, but some have long date ;)

    sorry to hear Frankie met Stampie :( never mind :rotfl:

    Hope rain keeps off for the unit stuff.
  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    Hope the weather is good for you at the fair this afternoon and you and Ds have a good time hun :D
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • MandyLou66
    MandyLou66 Posts: 254 Forumite
    Hi 3dogs and friends! Hope your'e all well.
    Have perked up a bit since the onc news, Nick has new pain meds so is far more chipper and I have my own meds courtesy of M&S! 24 bottles of rather quoffable dry white wine delivered on Thurs for £46. 25!! Happy days!
    At least the tumour being bigger gives the next meds a better target to work on!
    Glad to see you and Alan are getting out and about 3dogs, sometimes you can almost believe life is normal if you carry on doing your usual things!
    Hope you all have a Happy Easter with lots of chocolate!!
    Take care
    ML
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    Now why didn't I take any notice of the
    second part of that quote!!???
  • boultdj
    boultdj Posts: 5,335 Forumite
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    edited 7 April 2012 at 8:11PM
    Enjoy your wine MandyLou, :D I'm just having a cider, other wise known as loopy juice here:rotfl:
    £71.93/ £180.00
  • beanielou
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    Hope that you all manage to have a happy weekend.
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,678 Ambassador
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    Mmmm.Might have a wee glass of rose.
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  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    MandyLou66 wrote: »
    Hi 3dogs and friends! Hope your'e all well.
    Have perked up a bit since the onc news, Nick has new pain meds so is far more chipper and I have my own meds courtesy of M&S! 24 bottles of rather quoffable dry white wine delivered on Thurs for £46. 25!! Happy days!
    At least the tumour being bigger gives the next meds a better target to work on!
    Glad to see you and Alan are getting out and about 3dogs, sometimes you can almost believe life is normal if you carry on doing your usual things!
    Hope you all have a Happy Easter with lots of chocolate!!
    Take care
    ML

    That's the spirit MandyLou :j :j Glad Nick is feeling better with different meds as that makes it better for both of you. So you got some of the bargain M&S wine, did you? The 50% off ones ;)
    boultdj wrote: »
    Enjoy your wine MandyLou, :D I'm just having a cider, other wise known as loopy juice here:rotfl:

    Cider was never my drink :eek: untill I got coupons for cheap/free bottles and I got a taste for it :D I'd just said to Alan last night that I fancied some so ended up getting 2 x blackcurrant flavoured, 1 pear and 1 apple cider today at Lidl. One of the blackcurrant ones in fridge cooling nicely right now. Cheers Boult :beer:
    beanielou wrote: »
    Mmmm.Might have a wee glass of rose.

    Cheers Beanie :beer:
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
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