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Risen from the ashes ...

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  • cleggie
    cleggie Posts: 2,169 Forumite
    It was your birthday yesterday???? HOw come you didnt say anything!!??!? Happy belated Birthday Rising!!

    Sorry to hear you were feeling a bit down!

    Yes, i reckon you should be proud of reducing your number of pots :)

    Hope you are feeling better today?
  • :o Yes it was yesterday .... thanks for the belated wishes!:)

    Still a bit down tbh - I do tend to go through phases like this so ....... just get a bit fed up (like many) of trying to balance the books and think before buying everything IYKWIM.

    I guess it feels like it'll always be like this - although the debts are gone (thank god :T) - being by myself it's really always going to be a struggle not to get back into more debt with just the one income and it gets a bit depressing sometimes.

    Sorry .... that's a very down post ..... will "have words" with myself!:o
    Grocery Challenge £211/£455 (01/01-31/03)
    2016 Sell: £125/£250
    £1,000 Emergency Fund Challenge #78 £3.96 / £1,000
    Vet Fund: £410.93 / £1,000
    Debt free & determined to stay that way!
  • cleggie
    cleggie Posts: 2,169 Forumite
    :bdaycake: Well here is a b'day cake just for you!
    No need to be having any 'words with yourself', i can totally empathise with the knowledge that because you are my yourself you will always have 1 less income coming in, and being the only one in the house that has the constant need to think about finances.

    Its like constantly jugging balls to make sure you dont drop any.
  • cleggie wrote: »
    :bdaycake: Well here is a b'day cake just for you!

    Awwwww, thanks:):o
    cleggie wrote: »
    No need to be having any 'words with yourself', i can totally empathise with the knowledge that because you are my yourself you will always have 1 less income coming in, and being the only one in the house that has the constant need to think about finances.

    Its like constantly jugging balls to make sure you dont drop any.

    Yup .... you got it right there Cleggie ...... a constant juggling act - I like that. I guess it also explains my obsessions with the spreadsheets / pots etc as it took sooooooo long to get DF and things are OK but tight IYKWIM and it would be soooooo easy to fall back down again but I'm determined not to!:)
    Grocery Challenge £211/£455 (01/01-31/03)
    2016 Sell: £125/£250
    £1,000 Emergency Fund Challenge #78 £3.96 / £1,000
    Vet Fund: £410.93 / £1,000
    Debt free & determined to stay that way!
  • Hovel_lady
    Hovel_lady Posts: 4,291 Forumite
    *nips in to say..*

    A belated Happy Birthday

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    *Goes back to reading diary*
  • Awwwww, thanks Hovel Lady :) - honestly, my diary's not worth reading - it goes through phases of being OK then descents into my obsession with spreadsheets / pots etc ......:o
    Grocery Challenge £211/£455 (01/01-31/03)
    2016 Sell: £125/£250
    £1,000 Emergency Fund Challenge #78 £3.96 / £1,000
    Vet Fund: £410.93 / £1,000
    Debt free & determined to stay that way!
  • Hovel_lady
    Hovel_lady Posts: 4,291 Forumite
    Awwwww, thanks Hovel Lady :) - honestly, my diary's not worth reading - it goes through phases of being OK then descents into my obsession with spreadsheets / pots etc ......:o
    Obsession with spreadsheets and pots? :think:
    I hadn't noticed :cool:

    Seriously, whatever works for you is good :D
  • Hovel_lady
    Hovel_lady Posts: 4,291 Forumite
    Oh and a huge WELL DONE for being debt free :T
  • Knitting_Nora
    Knitting_Nora Posts: 1,450 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    *nips in*

    *lobs birthday cake at Rising*

    Happy birthday for yesterday!!

    *nips out before Rising can recover and throw something back*

    Nora.x
  • Uurrrrggghhhhh - ohhhhhh that cake's quite nice actually :) mmmmmm *glazed look appearing over face* yuuuummmmm - guess I'll just have to eat it all since I'm covered :rotfl:

    But that Knitty better not think she's got away with that!:)
    Grocery Challenge £211/£455 (01/01-31/03)
    2016 Sell: £125/£250
    £1,000 Emergency Fund Challenge #78 £3.96 / £1,000
    Vet Fund: £410.93 / £1,000
    Debt free & determined to stay that way!
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