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A message from parents to children

Read this recently - and I thought it worth passing on to all parents here :-

My Promise to my children ~ I am your Parent first, your Friend second. I will stalk you, flip out on you, lecture you, drive you insane, be your worst nightmare & hunt you down like a bloodhound when needed because I LOVE YOU!

When you understand that, I will know you are a responsible adult.

You will NEVER find someone who loves, prays, cares, & worries about you more than I do! If you don't hate me at least once in your life - I am not doing my job properly.

With much love, your Mum x
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  • I've told this to Junior many a time but it is so true.
    2014 Target;
    To overpay CC by £1,000.
    Overpayment to date : £310

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  • amersall
    amersall Posts: 17,037 Forumite
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    This is so right,i used to say this to my two when they were younger.
    Never more true words spoken.
  • And I would also add
    - as you get older I will advise you on the pros and cons of a decision but you have to make the final decision. But I will there, by your side, in case it all goes pear-shaped
    2014 Target;
    To overpay CC by £1,000.
    Overpayment to date : £310

    2nd Purse Challenge:
    £15.88 saved to date
  • CH27
    CH27 Posts: 5,531 Forumite
    I like that:D
    Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.
  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,789 Forumite
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    You obviously haven't read the modern one, it adds.

    - I promise to buy you every stupid new toy and electronic gizmo that comes onto the market, because I love you and I want you to have the best!
    Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.
  • FatVonD
    FatVonD Posts: 5,315 Forumite
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    thorsoak wrote: »
    If you don't hate me at least once in your life - I am not doing my job properly.

    Blimey, I must be a really good mum ;):D
    Make £25 a day in April £0/£750 (March £584, February £602, January £883.66)

    December £361.54, November £322.28, October £288.52, September £374.30, August £223.95, July £71.45, June £251.22, May£119.33, April £236.24, March £106.74, Feb £40.99, Jan £98.54) Total for 2017 - £2,495.10
  • victory
    victory Posts: 16,188 Forumite
    You obviously haven't read the modern one, it adds.

    - I promise to buy you every stupid new toy and electronic gizmo that comes onto the market, because I love you and I want you to have the best!

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::D
    misspiggy wrote: »
    I'm sure you're an angel in disguise Victory :)
  • I know when my daughter was 3 I felt like I was saying NO to her so much that I had to remind myself it was because I loved her.
    Booo!!!
  • Oh and add when something happens that I warned you would happen its not becuase I can see into the future, its because I have been around the block a fair few times and as a result know what's around the corner. But I will try and not say I told you so
    2014 Target;
    To overpay CC by £1,000.
    Overpayment to date : £310

    2nd Purse Challenge:
    £15.88 saved to date
  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
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    thorsoak wrote: »
    Read this recently - and I thought it worth passing on to all parents here :-

    My Promise to my children ~ I am your Parent first, your Friend second. I will stalk you, flip out on you, lecture you, drive you insane, be your worst nightmare & hunt you down like a bloodhound when needed because I LOVE YOU!

    When you understand that, I will know you are a responsible adult.

    You will NEVER find someone who loves, prays, cares, & worries about you more than I do! If you don't hate me at least once in your life - I am not doing my job properly.

    With much love, your Mum x

    Title corrected :D
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