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Am I being silly?

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  • Pee
    Pee Posts: 3,826 Forumite
    It's completely normal and I've felt it with exes that I have split up from and wanted to be happy, because they were good, nice people, just not the right men for me. It is very funny and a part of me felt that could be me, even though I don't even want to get married... not that is very silly!

    On the other hand if in a couple of months time you feel that marriage is what you want, I think you should think carefully about the best way to approach this i.e. if you never marry this new man, how would you feel? Cheated and like you would have been happier marrying someone else? If you don't know what you want, you may never get it.

    I have to say that for me commitment isn't about a marriage ceremony, but we all set a diffferent store by these things.
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