Trying for a Baby Part 7

emsbet

Just been having a look at the hamper thread on the Christmas boards that has picture of people's finished hampers and there was one on there that was a baby bath filled with lots of baby toiletries etc. It made me a bit as that's what my sister was doing for me for Christmas, she'd already started buying bits for it when we lost the baby

Sorry for bringing the mood down.

xx

ikkle87

Awww DJ, what a lovely way to tell your OH. xx

ikkle87

emsbet wrote: »

Just been having a look at the hamper thread on the Christmas boards that has picture of people's finished hampers and there was one on there that was a baby bath filled with lots of baby toiletries etc. It made me a bit as that's what my sister was doing for me for Christmas, she'd already started buying bits for it when we lost the baby

Sorry for bringing the mood down.

xx

(((hugs))) It is hard, I still hate my birthdays because i lost my baby the day before mine, but it gets easier each year, it doesn't mean you forget, or that you care less, it just means you find a different way to remember. There's a poem called Butterfly that helped me a little bit, but I think because it was autumn and there were lots of butterflies around it brought a bit of comfort to me and made me feel like there was still a part of him with me.

There's nothing I can say that will cheer you up, i do wish there was. If you ever need to talk though just pm me. I don't mind xx
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divorcingjack

Huge hugs emsbet,

I'm so sorry.

dj xx

emsbet

divorcingjack wrote: »

Huge hugs emsbet,

I'm so sorry.

dj xx

I'm sorry for bringing the mood down. I'm still doing :j:j for you BFP

xx

jen77_2

Congratulations DJ on your bfp!!:j

divorcingjack

emsbet wrote: »

I'm sorry for bringing the mood down. I'm still doing :j:j for you BFP

xx

Don't apologise, you are more than entitled to feel as you do. Hugs x

QQuaver

divorcingjack wrote: »

I asked him to give me a kiss on my tummy (he always does this to make me feel better when I get AF)

That's a lovely AF consolation:o

and he got the shock of his life!

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
Did the marker come off OK?:D

Then he leant over and said to my tummy "now you listen to me .. stay in there. Do you hear me? It's not as warm out here as it is in there. You'll never be this warm again!!!"

I love being warm.

Awww... lovely:happyhear

Secretdebts wrote: »

Does getting weepy at dj's lovely post about her oh count as ss'ing.

I have it too, so I don't think it's SS, I don't SS:cool:

mrshappy wrote: »

she kept on telling me about all the lovely men-she seems to have a thing for men in uniforms!

Glad she's OK, and in good spirits:p

I'm not sure if there were sperm in the urine sample-it was just checked for any sign of infection. Am off to google what it would mean if there was and how on earth they would get there!!!

Sperm can get out the wrong way sometimes (retrograde ejaculation):o

emsbet wrote: »

Just been having a look at the hamper thread on the Christmas boards that has picture of people's finished hampers and there was one on there that was a baby bath filled with lots of baby toiletries etc. It made me a bit as that's what my sister was doing for me for Christmas, she'd already started buying bits for it when we lost the baby

(((Hugs))). Your sister will get to make one soon:o

I was looking for my GHD (hair straightener) today, and of course, I bumped into the bag with all the mc baby stuff in it:(
And no, GHDs were not in there, but had to look at the scan pics one more time

QQuaver

But hoooray for the BFP DJ, and happy happy Christmas to the DJ family!:j:santa2::xmastree::j

bigzippy

Congratulations DJ! :j I knew it!

Hoping emsbet and qq get nice pick-me-up treats today

Dh's feeling the strain and under the weather today, so I think we'll take some bits back to tesco and swap them for some boots he wanted and then I'll make him some chicken fajitas for tea, which he says he fancies think I'll do kidney bean rice instead of the wraps tho, cos it's better for the diet