Trying for a Baby Part 7

i_love_holidays_2

Hi :j

not been on much as been really busy then had a week in the sun !!
back to reality now tho with this weather

Theres been quite a bit of sad news while ive been away and i just want to you all to know that im sorry (i know that doesnt mean a lot) but i really truly am....i hope you are all as well as can be expected and i cannot imagine what you and your OH's are going through ******BIG HUGS xxxxxx

Congratulations jovichick123/Plans_all_plans/Kaemi on your BFP and second congrats to jovichick123!!

I wish my OH would propose but after 12 years i dont think that will happen...if we ever do end up marrying it will be by mutual agreement :rotfl:

Looking at all your lovely wedding pictures makes me jealous and the ladies who got married abroad did you have family go abroad with you or did you go just the 2 of you??

Nothing to report here much been on clomid this cycle and still havent felt any different CD19 for me and im not sure when i OV but if AF doesnt arrive by next sunday 23rd Oct i will test but im not very hopeful

Just found out this morning coming back into work that my manager is coming over today to speak to me and my colleague reference 1 of us leaving :mad: GREAT PMA eh?! i dont know what ill do if i lose my job as i dont want to stop TTC but i cant see us affording everything and i wont qualify for SMP if i get a new job but i dont think id be entitled to anything from the government ( this isnt what i want to do but while i find a new job it will help)

colli

i_love_holidays wrote: »

I wish my OH would propose but after 12 years i dont think that will happen...if we ever do end up marrying it will be by mutual agreement :rotfl:

Looking at all your lovely wedding pictures makes me jealous and the ladies who got married abroad did you have family go abroad with you or did you go just the 2 of you??

Nothing to report here much been on clomid this cycle and still havent felt any different CD19 for me and im not sure when i OV but if AF doesnt arrive by next sunday 23rd Oct i will test but im not very hopeful

Just found out this morning coming back into work that my manager is coming over today to speak to me and my colleague reference 1 of us leaving :mad: GREAT PMA eh?! i dont know what ill do if i lose my job as i dont want to stop TTC but i cant see us affording everything and i wont qualify for SMP if i get a new job but i dont think id be entitled to anything from the government ( this isnt what i want to do but while i find a new job it will help)

I'd recommend the leap year proposal someone else did (sorry, forget who):D. Sometimes men need a little push. OH and I had been together for 8 years when I booked a romantic holiday to co-incide with my birthday, he took advantage of the perfect opportunity to propose and is still none the wiser that was what I intended from the start :rotfl:

No symptoms doesn't mean too much, especialy at CD19 so I wouldn't worry.

Sorry to hear about your job, hopefuly it will be ok but if not I think you can still claim maternity allowance if you're not eligible for SMP, I think they calculate it according to how much you've worked in the last however long, might be worth a google

colli

RebekahR wrote: »

Well this time last month and the month before the spotting started ... so far *Touching every peice of wood possible* I haven't started yet ... Wanna go test before it does lol. As once it does it is pointless testing. Will be seeing the drs tomorrow afternoon. Do you think he will want to do a pregnancy test? Need to print off all my charts in a bit or at least the last 3 months. Shall I do 3 or 6 months?

that's good news, have you been taking vit b?

Welcome along Birdie :beer:

RebekahR

This wait is sooo painful! I just wanna test!! I hate 2ww!! *Sob*

RebekahR

colli wrote: »

that's good news, have you been taking vit b?

Welcome along Birdie :beer:

Yes I've been on the Vit B from cd 2 til ovulation. Same with primrose oil. Only 1 tablet of each. Think i'll need to up the primrose as the breast pain is worse than usual this month. Although still irritatingly only in 1 boob LOL.

tinkwings

rebekahr wrote: »

this wait is sooo painful! I just wanna test!! I hate 2ww!! *sob*

totally agree :d

RebekahR

You know whats funny!! Every other month I've got excited when spotting started and then stopped for a day or 2 thinking that it was implantation. Now i'md doing what someone else said a few days ago and am thinking it not starting yet means I'm one of those with no symptoms LOL. Right I need to step away from google lol. Bet spotting will be here after seeing the dr tomorrow lol.

Lily_The_Legend

I think I've developed some sort of workitis! :eek:

Feel really sick today, so sitting here munching on Polos. I hope I haven't got a bug, as I have a phobia of sick.

Sorry, TMI and nothing to do with TTC at all!

claire16c

Birdie85 wrote: »

LOL, thanks! I can understand why it's hard though, at least when you're waiting you have some control over it, I'm already wondering when AF will turn up, hoping it won't because we've been super lucky and caught straight away etc! Think it might take me a few cycles to settle into it!

I think thats right - I didnt really think much about waiting to ttc, it was just normal life and wed decided ages ago that after we came back from travelling wed start so there wasnt exactly much to think about. Then we started ttc and its really quite frustrating!

i_love_holidays wrote: »

Hi :j

not been on much as been really busy then had a week in the sun !!
back to reality now tho with this weather

Theres been quite a bit of sad news while ive been away and i just want to you all to know that im sorry (i know that doesnt mean a lot) but i really truly am....i hope you are all as well as can be expected and i cannot imagine what you and your OH's are going through ******BIG HUGS xxxxxx

Congratulations jovichick123/Plans_all_plans/Kaemi on your BFP and second congrats to jovichick123!!

I wish my OH would propose but after 12 years i dont think that will happen...if we ever do end up marrying it will be by mutual agreement :rotfl:

Looking at all your lovely wedding pictures makes me jealous and the ladies who got married abroad did you have family go abroad with you or did you go just the 2 of you??

Nothing to report here much been on clomid this cycle and still havent felt any different CD19 for me and im not sure when i OV but if AF doesnt arrive by next sunday 23rd Oct i will test but im not very hopeful

Just found out this morning coming back into work that my manager is coming over today to speak to me and my colleague reference 1 of us leaving :mad: GREAT PMA eh?! i dont know what ill do if i lose my job as i dont want to stop TTC but i cant see us affording everything and i wont qualify for SMP if i get a new job but i dont think id be entitled to anything from the government ( this isnt what i want to do but while i find a new job it will help)

Weather is nice where I live today, supposed to be warmer temps this week again although not the heatwave we had the week before of course

You never know, or - maybe he just needs a push in the right direction :rotfl:Or you could do it?

I went abroad, we had 29 guests come, we gave them about 22 months notice.

hope the job situation works out ok for you!

RebekahR wrote: »

This wait is sooo painful! I just wanna test!! I hate 2ww!! *Sob*

Me too. Especially this time as my temps arent playing fair.

Lily_The_Legend

i love holidays, I hope you don't lose your job!

If you are made redundant, I think you can claim non-means tested JSA for six months. After that, it's means tested, so what you get depends on your household income and savings. Think that's right anyway.