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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • lilymay1
    lilymay1 Posts: 1,597 Forumite
    Hugs lemonmelon.

    Don't blame yourself or have any negative thoughts about not being able to give your OH a family. He doesn't want to be with you for your womb.
    Fingers crossed you get a sticky bfp soon xx
    14th October 2010
    20th October 2011
    3rd December 2013
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    lilymay1 wrote: »
    T2D - as my cycle buddy, you have to get a BFP because then I will :D

    sorry Lilymay, but things aren't looking good!

    BFN this morning, and while not AF, definately what I would call stained CM. Boobs reducing a bit... not ready to call AF, but I think today it will properly appear.

    But, I am strangely upbeat about it. SOMETHING definately happened this month. Maybe a chemical over the last few days, or perhaps... well who knows. But somehow it's heartening to have something other that absolutely regular and unchanged cycles.

    No hugs needed (just yet!). Not there yet, but somehow it feels a little closer this month.

    We are going out for some free cocktails tonight at a function, so I may have a sneaky one or two. :)
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    lemonmelon - (((hugs))) Am so sorry you have to come back here, but it's lovely to 'see' you as well, iyswim. Hope you're ok x.
    t2d - will keep my fingers crossed until I hear otherwise!
    apple*pie - glad your DH did as he was told lol. Mine seems to become a massive PITA around ov time.
    lilimay - hope work's better for you today. Is it anything in particular you're struggling with or do you just not like the new job? Hope it settles down soon - nothing worse than hating work (tell me about it!)

    Got my CD28 bloods this afternoon - feel almost proud of myself that I think I've managed to ov between the CD21 ones and today. :rotfl:
  • Birdie85
    Birdie85 Posts: 9,330 Forumite
    Hi ladies! :wave: I'm back from my mini holiday, which was lvoely and sooo relaxing. We'd opted to stay in an over-16s only hotel for the peace and quiet (and so we wouldn't be spending the whole time planning on stealing other people's cute babies :o)... but I think the age limit had been lost in translation as we were the youngest couple there by a good 30 years! :eek: Ah well, was lovely and hot and I read 5 books in as many days :) I didn't even have to worry too much about swimming with AF either as the pool was freezing cold, I only went in once and couldn't summon the courage to brave it again! :rotfl:

    It was my birthday yesterday so I'm now 27 :( Where have the last 5 years gone?! :eek: Bit miffed that I've not had a card from anyone at work; my manager only has 2 people to look after, surely it can't be that much trouble to remember to buy her staff birthday cards? In my old office we always bought each other cards and little presents, seems a bit impersonal here, like no-one cares. Got a bag of Skittles from one of the guys on another team though. :o

    Can anyone give me a quick run-down of lunaception? I've Googled but most of the websites that look any good have been blocked at work :o Our room on holiday was pitch black at night and I slept with an eye-mask last night at home, how long do I keep it up? No worries about getting plenty of sunshine during the day as I sit next to 2 big windows all day at work and walk home at lunchtime so that's 25 minutes spent outside. :)
    Overcome the notion that you must be ordinary. It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary!
    Goal Weight 140lb Starting Weight: 160lb Current Weight 145lb
  • zcrat41
    zcrat41 Posts: 1,799 Forumite
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    Lemonmelon - of course no one minds you being back here. That is what we are here for. Sorry you have to come back though and I really do hope that it's 3rd time lucky for you.

    T2D - you sound very upbeat today!

    Lilymay - Hope things get a bit easier for you. My mantra when I'm stressing about stuff is that "if it's about money it's not worth worrying about". Easier said than done sometimes though!

    Really bored of 2ww now. I keep thinking I've been in 2ww for ages but then see QQ's lists and wonder how it is that I'm only on day 5!
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    CD29 time2deal - 17DPO :cool:
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    CD1 time2deal - Awaiting ov :o
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    edited 16 May 2012 at 10:53AM
    Lilymay - hope work improves xx
    ((time2)) xxx
    Birdie - glad you had a fab holiday!

    QQ - I LOVE my new countdown :) - it almost takes away the grump I have about not ov-ing!
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • rumfeeble
    rumfeeble Posts: 182 Forumite
    Good morning ladies!

    Hugs to lemonmelon ... welcome back .... i hope your stay is very short and super sweet
    Hugs Lilymay - sometimes I dont like my work much and I just keep thinking if only I could get pregnant then I would only have to put up with it for a few more months....
    Tink - loving the sewing projects!
    Time 2deal - come sit by me I want some of that PMA to rub off on me :)
    Emsbet - nice to see you pop back on hope you are doing well x
    Applepie - I have been using the interntet cheepies as well and I got a positive the first couple of months I used them and then kinda didnt, it just never got to a really dark line since then. Im using the jump on DH husband every other day method.

    QQ - how are you doing? you're always asking about all of us, is the PMA still high ready for next month (which of course is going to be THE month)

    I have had a birthday (didnt really want to admit to it) I am now 35 and can literally hear the biological clock ticking :(

    Any others over 35 and trying for #1?
    If at first you dont succeed, try, try again
  • walby1993
    walby1993 Posts: 355 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Hello ladies,

    Can I come back? I had a mc back in February and DH and I were going to be sensible and wait a few years to try again BUT... we really want to start a family and we would have managed financially if I hadn't of mc'ed so we would manage if I fell pg again. We can more than afford the day-to-day living so there is no big problem TTC. I think I am CD31 and have no idea when ov will be - I have not been temping and cycles may be off kilter due to mc (usually were 7 weeks, 1st cycle after mc was 8 weeks so not sure how long this cycle will be). Think I will test on the 8th of June (as that will be coming up for an 8 week cycle).

    Walby
    :heart: Became Mrs W in 2011 :heart:
    :smileyhea Blessed with Baby boy 1 in 2013, Baby boy 2 in 2016 and Baby boy 3 in 2018 :smileyhea
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  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    hello beautiful ladies!
    well i spent 3.5 hours in the walk in centre last night, that was a joy. went cos i thought i might have broken my little finger. had the assessment bit where she just played with it then told me to go away and wait again, waiting three hours to be told 'it can't be broken cos you've not done anything to it (even though i know of several people who've broken finger bones and not realised) it must be an rsi so squeeze a soft ball'. very helpful and never going there again. only been once before and i was accused of trying to get painkillers fraudulently.

    still no Oved so think the soy was a waste of time but oh well, if it's a 35 day cycle for me then it should be coming up soon

    also i reallllly want a tattoo but don't want to book an appointment in case i get pregnant x x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
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