Depression

Sugar_Coated_Owl

Awww queensway_boy THANK YOU for your get well wishes

How are you?

Sugar_Coated_Owl

wendym and geminilady Thank you for your support. What would I do without all you guys eh you've all been so great

Let_Robinson_Sing

queensway_boy wrote: »

Let_Robinson_Sing

:bdaycake:

Have a good un :T



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Thanks very much QB :T

Tulip

razorbladekisses wrote: »

:hello: karrie, Thanks for the supportive message. I'm out woohoo I will be able to watch Vernon hehe!

RBK,

I am so glad to hear you are out of the hospital woohoo! good news I bet you'd be gutted if you couldnt see your vernon Kay hehe

Katie

Tulip

Let_Robinson_Sing wrote: »

Thanks very much QB :T

Happy Birthday Let_Robinson_Sing,

Enjoy your day

lots of love,

Katie

Tiff_2

Hi dmg!:hello:
to the family hun!
quote=dmg24
Hope no one minds, I just don't know where else to go.
Always room at the Inn here angel.;)

Left the house tonight for the first time in two weeks, and really thought I looked ok.
Excuse my prying dmg, but had you not been out at all in 2 weeks? Is it because of the breakup or is there another reason hun? You were happy with your appearance dmg - please keep that in mind. It really matters how you think of yourself.;)

Then during the evening got called an 'oompalumpa' and 'fat'. Fat I can cope with, I know I have put on weight recently, but the other took real thought. Just tried to laugh it off when he said it.
Why are people so cruel?
How long have you got hun?!:rolleyes:
It's not easy to brush off smart-assed remarks that big brave people cruelly fling about after 34 pints on a night out!:beer:
They have to have a way to prove their intelligence you see hun, to the rest of the herd.:rolleyes: I guess by the character he quoted, his reading level can be estimated as that of an 8 year old! It would have hurt anyone's feelings angel.

I used to be in an incredibly destructive relationship. I saw him tonight, and was so tempted to go back, just to have someone that understands. He was evil to me, but when I was low, he understood.
Better the devil you know dmg? Not so hun. Resist that temptation sweetheart. You are worth so much more than that hun.:T It must have been even more tempting after those comments. I try to remember that every devil has its good points, but the price you pay is selling your soul to an abusive partner - NO DEAL!!!;)

I'm really sorry, I have avoided posting all this for so long because I don't want to get anybody else down. I just don't know where else to go.
I'm glad you found the courage to post dmg.;)
Don't say that! Don't want to get us down? We're already depressed sweetheart, so no problems there!:D
Where else could you come angel for a friendly ear?
As you know the guys here are fantastic.:T Here you can be who you really are with no fear of judgement.;)

Thank you to anyone who reads this, and please don't worry, everything works out in the end. Am going to try to sleep now, I don't know what else to do.
Thank again x/quote
Sleep's a good idea angel. The day after always helps a tiny bit as a rule.;) Sometimes we have to stop thinking before we pull ourselves lower.

For anyone's interest, there are Key Skill courses ranging from personal development to assertiveness training which are usually free and at available at colleges. If you are already doing a course, this should be a built-in element. They do short courses of between 6 and 12 weeks long too. It makes you think about yourself, others and behaviour.

I hope you're feeling better dmg hun. Post any time angel - usually someone passing through before too long.;) Take care hun.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Sugar_Coated_Owl

rose07, You have been so supportive hun (((HUGS))) thank you for being there for me and for updating everyone on here.

How are things with you? Is your foot getting better?

xxx

Sugar_Coated_Owl

Hello Sarahsaver, Welcome to the depression thread. I hope you get lots of support here.

Tiff_2

Hi tulip!:hello:
hun. Sorry for the delay tulip.:rolleyes:

quote=Tulip
Hi Everyone,
I read this thread every day and I actually felt shy to do my first post but I am here at long last,Hi to all hope you dont mind me coming on this thread.
You are more than welcome angel to come here anytime! After all hun - they let me post!:rolleyes: Well done on finally taking the plunge.

Karrie: I agree its nice to be able to offload stuff as It takes the weight off your shoulders
Absolutely!;)

I get my low days now and again and days when I am happy I live in Devon.I have a network of people who help me when I feel low so I have great support.Today for me too is a good day
Katie /quote
I'm glad you are able to recognize that all days aren't black days hun. It really can make a difference to have a support network that you feel you can trust.
I hope you go on to have many more good days katie. Take care.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Karrie

razorbladekisses wrote: »

:hello: karrie, Thanks for the supportive message. I'm out woohoo I will be able to watch Vernon hehe!

Bloody glad to hear it!!! Nice to see you back!! :j

Don't forget, Vernon is mine - ok??!!

Seriously, welcome back!