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  • Tiff_2
    Tiff_2 Posts: 3,046 Forumite
    Evening all! (Always wanted to say that!:D )
    Hope you all had a great Friday guys. Had a sunny day here in Warwickshire and it got me thinking.:rolleyes:
    Just FYI, I found this link for a MIND factsheet on holidays for the disabled - mentally/physically/learning difficulties, with or without care or carers, hotels/centres/self-catering/retreats (not recommended for the agoraphobics among us!:eek: :D ), relaxing or with activities, home or abroad - seems like something for everyone.
    And before we all cry that we can't afford it, they have even listed charities and agencies that MAY be able to contribute financially. Here you go guys...

    http://www.mind.org.uk/Information/Factsheets/Employment+and+benefits/Holidays.htm

    And no, I'm not on commission!:D Hope it helps someone.:confused:
    Failing that, Tiffy has come up with a Plan B...:j
    obstacles.jpg
    Yep, that's right guys - we could all apply and go into the BB house together!!!:D

    Maybe I'm thinking too much...:rolleyes::rotfl:
    Much Love,
    Tiff xxx
    "If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.
    ***
    'You just got Tiffed!' ;)
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  • Tiff_2
    Tiff_2 Posts: 3,046 Forumite
    Afternoon peeps..

    Had a meeting with my tutor and head of dept this morning.. they've given me two choices.. either drop out and start again next year or their favourite.. plod on and hope for the best, they said it doesn't matter too much if my exam results are crap cos i can make up for it next year. Soo... I was feeling quite optimisitic and then my mobile rang........ DD has been acting up and being sent home until wednesday :mad:

    I also saw my diet counsellor woman and I've put on a stone n a half since last summer :eek:

    Hi ethel hun! :hello:
    I'm sorry it's been such an up and down day for you angel.hug.gif They obviously have faith in your abilities ethel. Although it's not the perfect scenario of choices by any means, if it helps hun, try and recognise that they haven't said you aren't up to the course. The second option sounds plausible imho - and you're a tough little cookie hun! If anyone can do it, you can!:T ;)
    I hope DD chills out when she gets back and that you get a nice weekend like the last one, with her. I can't say anything of much help right now hun but I'll be thinking of you and you know where I am if you want someone to shout at!:D Huge Tiff hugs ethel!hug.gifhug.gifhug.gif
    Much Love,
    Tiff xxx
    "If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.
    ***
    'You just got Tiffed!' ;)
    ***
  • Tiff_2
    Tiff_2 Posts: 3,046 Forumite
    Morning empty room.
    I've got up and done a man's version of clean the house. Having a g/f at least makes you do things like that. She is 50-50 if she can make it this weekend.
    I'm almost out of things to do and will have to open my books and start revising very soon. I do have a letter to post so I could go out instead :rotfl:

    I need to find a bet to put on but really I shouldn't bother looking til saturday when there's more games about. I have re-started a bit of matched betting for the extra income (made £55 last week). But in reality the most important thing is passing these exams!!.

    I spend over 12 hrs on here yesterday! I did have some fun though.

    Hugs and handshakes to you all.
    Hey gilly badger!:hello:
    Looks like I'm here now on my lonesome too!:rolleyes: How's you hun?hug.gif
    Ok - so you've done a man's version of cleaning the house, so that's about 50-50 too from the way your post sounds :D (just teasing hun!) so maybe that's why gf has only 50-50 chance of coming over. Y'see hun - it's all about ying and yang!;)
    Right - here's a checklist for the next time you do the housework, just to jog your memory...

    clean.gifthen floors.gifthen washing.gifthen



    dishes.gifthen iron.gifthen work.gifthen



    babybath.gifthen brushteeth.gifthen date.gifthen


    love.gifthen :silenced: !!!

    Now doesn't that sound easy?:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
    I'm sure you're a very tidy badger angel.

    Now about that urgent revision...whip.gif :eek: :D
    Hope the weekend goes well hun. Got to go now guys - will be back either later or tomorrow a.m. to fill you all in on Tiff news.:rolleyes: grouphug.gif
    Much Love,
    Tiff xxx
    "If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.
    ***
    'You just got Tiffed!' ;)
    ***
  • Hi guys, got my news on my police assesment through, needed 60% to pass the centre, I got 59%!

    Unsure whether to be delighted, gutted or what! Im pleased because some of the scores were really excellent, resilience, only 7% of people (out of 71) scored higher than I did, failed on team working, on one of the essays, but overall Im pleased with my performance.

    CBT has helped me, I would have been through the floor for a good 2 months about this, but I think its because Ive got other options and things to focus upon. I.e. University (stil my choice number 1) but other jobs on days too that will help me. I just need normality.
  • And to sell the car! Been through to black horse but they are closed everytime I call, usually because I get up at 6 pm!
  • blinky
    blinky Posts: 1,684 Forumite
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    Hi guys, got my news on my police assesment through, needed 60% to pass the centre, I got 59%!

    Unsure whether to be delighted, gutted or what! Im pleased because some of the scores were really excellent, resilience, only 7% of people (out of 71) scored higher than I did, failed on team working, on one of the essays, but overall Im pleased with my performance.

    CBT has helped me, I would have been through the floor for a good 2 months about this, but I think its because Ive got other options and things to focus upon. I.e. University (stil my choice number 1) but other jobs on days too that will help me. I just need normality.

    It is hard when you come so close and then just miss out :(
    Hug provider for depression thread :grouphug:
    "I'm not crazy, I'm just a little unwell.." - Unwell by Matchbox Twenty
  • gillette147
    gillette147 Posts: 13,296 Forumite
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    Tiff wrote:


    Hey gilly badger!:hello:
    Looks like I'm here now on my lonesome too!:rolleyes: How's you hun?hug.gif
    Ok - so you've done a man's version of cleaning the house, so that's about 50-50 too from the way your post sounds :D (just teasing hun!) so maybe that's why gf has only 50-50 chance of coming over. Y'see hun - it's all about ying and yang!;)
    Right - here's a checklist for the next time you do the housework, just to jog your memory...

    clean.gifthen floors.gifthen washing.gifthen



    dishes.gifthen iron.gifthen work.gifthen



    babybath.gifthen brushteeth.gifthen date.gifthen


    love.gifthen :silenced: !!!

    Now doesn't that sound easy?:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
    I'm sure you're a very tidy badger angel.

    Now about that urgent revision...whip.gif :eek: :D
    Hope the weekend goes well hun. Got to go now guys - will be back either later or tomorrow a.m. to fill you all in on Tiff news.:rolleyes: grouphug.gif
    Much Love,
    Tiff xxx


    That must have taken ages to compose.
    Sorry, I dont even recognise some of those activities.
    I'm on my own this weekend :sad:

    But i am seeing ex-workmates in morning and old school friend on sunday.
    ......and I'm free to revise.
    Oh well.

    Good weekend to all

    xx
    Girls are gonna love the way I toss my hair. Boys are gonna hate the way I seem.

    I would rather drown with you than watch the surf with someone else
  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    Thanks peeps.. that;s what makes it so frustrating.. they know I can pass - all my essays have been marked at 70-80% but because I have to keep missing classes and lectures I'm falling behind and it's not likely that I'd get much above 50% in my exams if things went smoothly from now til then.. which is highly unlikely.

    Daughter is home and in a horrible mood, she's being really nasty and aggressive and generally peeing everyone off.. I've asked her not to cut because of my washing machine being broken so it's hard to wash towels n things.. we'll see.. she said she'll do it without making a mess :mad:

    I just feel really fed up.. after everything feeling more positive earlier in the week :( I should know better than to get happy.. something always ruins it!
    ☆ §ügÅr cØÅTëÐ pØï§Øn ☆
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    12 stone down! :j
    Tiff Appreciation Society Member #2



  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    sorry forgot to say.. I know I owe people some pm replies.. I WILL get to them.. promise xx
    ☆ §ügÅr cØÅTëÐ pØï§Øn ☆
    Murphys no more pies club Member #41 :dance:
    12 stone down! :j
    Tiff Appreciation Society Member #2



  • blinky
    blinky Posts: 1,684 Forumite
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    Big hugs to Ethel and anyone else who needs them

    hug2.gifhug2.gifhug2.gifhug2.gif
    Hug provider for depression thread :grouphug:
    "I'm not crazy, I'm just a little unwell.." - Unwell by Matchbox Twenty
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