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The worst/naughtiest thing you've done to survive whilst at rock bottom

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  • What a thread, I have always though I was lucky but now extra lucky after reading this. Like others there might have been hard times for my parents but I was shielded from them. My mum is a trained cook and alot of my favourite meals are ones she has made with bits of leftovers. I would like to think I do help out with others where I can as like a few people have said I might be yourself that needs the help one day.
    I love MSE freebies and comps. Thanks posters
  • My turn , i am ashamed to say i have spent my ds's savings BUT he will have them all back plus any interest!
    Debt may be crippiling but it certainly opens your eyes to whats important in life and makes you appreciate things!
    Well done everyone who posted it took courage and educated people on what living on the bread line really means x
  • My OH told me the story of when he was 5 years old,he heard his parents talking about their lack of money and their concern of how they could feed the family their evening meal. He took it upon himself to sort this out. He went down to the local store and stole a small tin of beans and ran as fast as he could back home again. When he got home he produced the tin to his parents telling them ''it's ok Mum, don't worry, I've sorted out dinner for tonight'' Although he got into trouble for stealing, he said he felt so proud that he could help his parents solve the dinner dilemma. He, both parents 2 sisters and 2 brothers ended up with about 5 beans each :-)
  • adouglasmhor
    adouglasmhor Posts: 15,554 Forumite
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    I do understand under these circumstances why people steal from the employers but I am waiting for someone to post saying they replaced all the toilet rolls they stole....
    After the stealing turnips from the cattle fodder incident I became vegetarian for 15 years.
    The truth may be out there, but the lies are inside your head. Terry Pratchett


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  • MrsTUS
    MrsTUS Posts: 124 Forumite
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    My OH told me the story of when he was 5 years old,he heard his parents talking about their lack of money and their concern of how they could feed the family their evening meal. He took it upon himself to sort this out. He went down to the local store and stole a small tin of beans and ran as fast as he could back home again. When he got home he produced the tin to his parents telling them ''it's ok Mum, don't worry, I've sorted out dinner for tonight'' Although he got into trouble for stealing, he said he felt so proud that he could help his parents solve the dinner dilemma. He, both parents 2 sisters and 2 brothers ended up with about 5 beans each :-)
    They only used to put 35 beans in a tin back then? ;)
    "I once grumbled at having no boots - until I met a man with no feet" Anon

    Total personal debt of [STRIKE]£7850[/STRIKE] [STRIKE] £5977.74[/STRIKE] £5635.17
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  • Red_Doe
    Red_Doe Posts: 889 Forumite
    Many years ago, when I was expecting my second child, my ex husband, a lazy bar steward, wouldn't get out his bed on a January morning. My eldest, a toddler, was freezing and he had spent the week's coal money on beer and cigarettes.
    I took a shopping trolley and walked five miles downhill to a friends and borrowed a trollyeful of coal. Hauling it back uphill was murder. But we got a fire going and the eldest warmed up. I had no electric (again because of the ex) and cooked tatties and tinned spaghetti over the fire. :)
    Next day I went into labour, a direct result of hauling the coal. I was two weeks early. She was born with the cord round her neck twice and not breathing but they saved her life. I felt so guilty.....
    I haemoraged(sp?) and almost died myself.
    I've always had a pathological terror of absolute poverty since that incident and others I won't relate here. It's one reason I use this site.
    Now I'm faced with poverty of the same level as back then and that was almost thirty years ago. To be reaching this time of life and find yourself back as you were then, only with the added disadvantage of ill health and age, is very disheartening.
    No hauling coal this time though! I got a small paraffin heater that should see us through the winter. :)
    "Ignore the eejits...it saves your blood pressure and drives `em nuts!" :D
  • Damita
    Damita Posts: 344 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    It's amazing how people survive though such hard times :( worse I've ever done is stole toilet paper from uni and work..
    Debt Then 06.07 - £11,000 - Debt Now £0.00
    DFD Aug 2011
  • Cookiee
    Cookiee Posts: 268 Forumite
    This thread relates to me soo much x

    When OH and I 1st got together we were living in a bedsit and we had no money. Our families had disowned us as they thought we were wrong for each other (they eventually came around and we have been together 15 years this year lol) so we were living on approx £20 and that was to also pay for electric and medical costs. One day the milkman parked outside our window whilst he went up to the 10th floor, OH snuck out and took some milk, eggs, bread, bacon and yougert. We had not eaten for 2 days and only surviving on water and juice so we were starving! We managed to eat for 3 days after that and I finally managed to get a job. On my 1st wages I put an envelope in the milkman's float and apologised and paid him £5.

    I am grateful now that I have learned how to cook on a small budget.
  • Homeagain
    Homeagain Posts: 553 Forumite
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    Living away from home for the first time also resulted in the invention of "gunge" - mashed potatoes, fried onions and baked beans, all baked together. If we were flush, there was grated cheese in it too. Still make it now :rotfl:[/QUOTE]

    Sounds delicious ... how do you make 'gunge'?
  • Mags_cat
    Mags_cat Posts: 1,427 Forumite
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    Nicolafine wrote: »

    Sounds delicious ... how do you make 'gunge'?

    Ermmm...it's as easy as it sounds.

    Mix the mashed potatoes with some fried onions and baked beans - stick some grated cheese on the top and bake it til it's golden and bubbling.

    You could also use up any leftover cooked ham/bacon or corned beef and add them in if you have them.

    Smothering it in HP sauce once it's cooked only improves things :rotfl:

    It is delicious, which is why I still make it even though I no longer need to do so from neccessity :D
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