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I'm I a bad person?

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  • balletshoes
    balletshoes Posts: 16,610 Forumite
    erdd2 wrote: »
    What about the 4th...they could get lost ;)

    I was kind of alluding to that in option 1 ;).
  • Darlyd
    Darlyd Posts: 1,337 Forumite
    KiKi wrote: »
    Right. I didn't realise this was exclusive to the Asian community.

    I've learned something today.

    KiKi

    Not all Asians are like that. BUT the Asian's I visit on a daily basis with my work, think they bought us, we are theirs for their alicated time, and boy is it stressful!! And I learnt what B itch was in their language, it's used a lot.... I am lucky to have a polite, honest and lovely Asian colleague who works with me sometimes.. and she went to india with one of the clients, and was not allowed out of her hotel room for the whole month they were there !!
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    I dont care what nationailty they are.. they sound loopy!

    It is a little xenophobic to automatically assume they are Asian, even if they are. They could just be outrageous chavs lol..

    The Asian families I have experienced have all been lovely..
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  • Snatchy810
    Snatchy810 Posts: 45 Forumite
    You cant get on with everyone in life, sometimes you have to grit your teeth and get on with it, other times like in your case, do what makes you happy no point been depressed in life...
  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    I don't think this makes you a bad person.

    Life is too short to have people like this in your life and good for you for saying enough is enough.

    Just don't let them make you feel guilty for not helping them - bad behaviour should not be rewarded in my book.
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