cozza mission of madness

Sepa74

It is really hard when you love someone who is struggling to get their life into order. But it sounds like you've drawn some boundaries over the last couple of days, which was a really tough thing to do, but you succeeded! I think the things you did (or didn't do, like buying train tickets!) were really sensible. Keep drawing the boundaries, and stick to them, no matter how mean it makes you feel. You're not being mean, you're providing emotional support, which is what a girlfriend should do, but without supporting him financially, which you shouldn't do.

Good on you, and feel free to rant away... that's what we're here for!

cozza123

well since posting last my fella has finally got sorted and got a job and starts monday but did need to bail him out otherwise i don't think he would have also had to bail out another member of the family oh well not everyone has their LBM so not been able to over pay yet should be able to put in a little suppose even a little helps towards the bigger picture.

been continuing to do online surveys, started looking for coupons for shopping and there should be overtime starting again at work so if I can but myself in a positive mind at work I should be able to do some, last year I did loads however manager being horrible recently and its hard enough to bite my lip from having ago already (i'm not the only one who thinks this)

On the plus side i'm not back till Tuesday :j

Lois_E

Yay for your OH getting a job. Hope it works out really well for him.