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Separation and financial responsibilities
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clearingout wrote: »but that doesn't allow you to move on with your life - you are entitled to do that, you do realise that, don't you?!
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I am sure the OP feels that if he takes any of the good advice he has had then his wonderful ex will stop him seeing the children. I am sure he will be one of many men who find it suddenly difficult to arrange access once he takes away her 'perks'.
I hope the children don't get used as a weapon in this situation, but I fear they will.
Get legal advice, your current situation is unsustainable. I wish you the best of luck.2007 started 25 yr mortg @£105,000 balance,
2009 started 20 yr mortg @ £99,000 balance
DEC 2010 @ £77700 Nov 2011 £66500, 2012 56500 balance
4 (ish)year plan to get be mortgage free
keep overpaying!0
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