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Birthday present ideas for OH

I am really struggling for ideas for a birthday present for OH, for Monday of next week.

He will be 43, works in finance, has no obvious hobbies. I often buy him books or DVD box sets but feel I've done this idea to death. If I buy him experience type things he often doesn't get round to booking them before they expire. Does anyone have any inspirations? Budget can be flexible but ideally less than £100.

Thank you
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  • barbiedoll
    barbiedoll Posts: 5,328 Forumite
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    Oh, it's awful trying to buy presents for men, isn't it?

    Does he read a lot? What about an e-reader/Kindle?

    Other than that, I have no idea. My OH always gets me lovely presents and yet I have no idea what to buy him at Xmas/birthdays, he never asks for anything! :mad:

    I await any other answers with interest!
    "I may be many things but not being indiscreet isn't one of them"
  • Rachel021967
    Rachel021967 Posts: 1,015 Forumite
    Make him his favourite meal and give him a night of seduction.

    Rachel
  • ilikewatch
    ilikewatch Posts: 1,072 Forumite
    As someone in a similair demographic to your OH I wish people would just ask me what I want, then get it me! this year I'd love a gravy separator and a new set of barbecue tools, but apparently these are "too boring", so I will be getting a surprise instead...
  • clw1
    clw1 Posts: 185 Forumite
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    How about booking something to do together like a spa day for 2, tickets for a show or a meal at a nice restaurant.

    If you wanted a small gift my hubby (who is an accountant) loved a mug that said 'I love spreadsheets' http://www.iwantoneofthose.com/10284310.html?&keyword=i+love+spread+sheets+mugBROAD&gclid=CLvsvu6Ck6oCFUwc4QodlE9Jyw
  • Nicki
    Nicki Posts: 8,166 Forumite
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    edited 21 July 2011 at 7:20PM
    ilikewatch wrote: »
    As someone in a similair demographic to your OH I wish people would just ask me what I want, then get it me! this year I'd love a gravy separator and a new set of barbecue tools, but apparently these are "too boring", so I will be getting a surprise instead...

    :D Tried that. He sighed and said he had no idea! I gave my only idea, coincidentally a book on barbecuing to his parents who are similarly struggling!

    @Rachel. I think he's counting on getting that anyway ;)

    @clw. We do have tickets for the theatre tomorrow booked ages ago as part of his birthday treat, but I do need something for the day itself. I bought him the text of the play we are going to see as an anniversary present.

    @barbiedoll. Good idea. He's always borrowing my iPad, so one of his own might be a thought, though its more than I was planning to spend. ETA :eek: just checked how much they cost. A LOT more than I was planning on spending!
  • gingin_2
    gingin_2 Posts: 2,992 Forumite
    Nicki wrote: »
    I am really struggling for ideas for a birthday present for OH, for Monday of next week.

    He will be 43, works in finance, has no obvious hobbies. I often buy him books or DVD box sets but feel I've done this idea to death. If I buy him experience type things he often doesn't get round to booking them before they expire. Does anyone have any inspirations? Budget can be flexible but ideally less than £100.

    Thank you


    Same birthday and similar sounding job as my husband :) no hobbies also, except work.

    We've got him some niceish cufflinks ( wears them every day ), some nespresso capsules, a few dvd's and books. He's impossible to buy for. We might buy him a few more things at the weekend.
  • Sambucus_Nigra
    Sambucus_Nigra Posts: 8,669 Forumite
    Offer to get him something he REALLY won't want [new hoover] and when he screws his nose up, tell him he'd better think of something quick then.
    If you haven't got it - please don't flaunt it. TIA.
  • make_me_wise
    make_me_wise Posts: 1,509 Forumite
    Nicki wrote: »
    I am really struggling for ideas for a birthday present for OH, for Monday of next week.

    He will be 43, works in finance, has no obvious hobbies. I often buy him books or DVD box sets but feel I've done this idea to death. If I buy him experience type things he often doesn't get round to booking them before they expire. Does anyone have any inspirations? Budget can be flexible but ideally less than £100.

    Thank you

    Get a babysitter and go out for a really lovely evening together.
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    Why not go to a theme park together? It wasnt my OHs birthday or anything, but on holiday in Cornwall we decided to go to an attraction not realising it was really for kids! got there and looked at each other and then said 'bu99er it' lets have some fun! we are both in our mid fifties, so we did! and it was the best day we had had in years! we didnt care how silly we looked! no-one knew us! and it took care of the pressies for the grandkids - we won most of them!
  • ukjoel
    ukjoel Posts: 1,468 Forumite
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    Make him his favourite meal and give him a night of seduction.

    Rachel


    Marry me Rachel.....
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