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Tuesday 19th July 2011 What small DFW things will you do today????

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  • Thanks, love!

    Summary to save you reading:

    broke up with very long term boyfriend in April > moved from the UK to Uganda for new life and new job > moved into shared house > have embarked on lovely but likely inadvisable romantic relationship with roommate in said shared house > now very happy and hoping it doesnt turn into a drama fest :rotfl:

    //end thread hijack//

    Good for you NTBY mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm beginning of a new relationship lucky devil! :kisses2::kisses2::smileyhea:lovethoug:love:
    DF as at 30/12/16
    Wombling 2026: £25.70
    Grocery spend challenge Feb £285.11/£250
    GC annual £389.25/£2700
    Eating out budget: £ 48.87/£300
    Extra cash earned 2026: £185
  • sibles wrote: »
    Happy tuesday all

    Gang, I need some advice, if you don't mind? I have a friend visiting and totally didn't plan anything to do saturday night, I was thinking, as we haven't seen each other in so long we'd spend the whole time catching up, maybe have a few drinks etc, but she asked if we were going out. I've come clean, and said I'll organise something if she wants, but I'm cutting it fine, payday is next wednesday and I've got maybe £30 to play with... I'd rather stay home but she is a guest.. any ideas of how I can deal with it if she would rather go out?

    Thanks and big love xx


    oooooo ideas, I love them! how about a nice walk & a drink in a country pub in the afternoon just to get things going then back home for a bottle, maybe a couple of home spa treatments & a split-your-sides-laughing old film? I can personally recommend Footloose if you want to pee yourself. Also can highly recommend a good ole youtube sesh watching old songs from the 80s - always good for giggle! hth x
    DF as at 30/12/16
    Wombling 2026: £25.70
    Grocery spend challenge Feb £285.11/£250
    GC annual £389.25/£2700
    Eating out budget: £ 48.87/£300
    Extra cash earned 2026: £185
  • ok my list for the day:
    • flylady - lounge, hallway & stairs
    • go shopping & stick to list (ds has revolted at the cupboard dive we are currently doing!)
    • check banking - payday tomorrow ;)
    • celebrate getting an A in my audit :j
    that'll do me. Hope you're all happy x
    DF as at 30/12/16
    Wombling 2026: £25.70
    Grocery spend challenge Feb £285.11/£250
    GC annual £389.25/£2700
    Eating out budget: £ 48.87/£300
    Extra cash earned 2026: £185
  • Candy0107
    Candy0107 Posts: 1,645 Forumite
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    Thanks, love!

    Summary to save you reading:

    broke up with very long term boyfriend in April > moved from the UK to Uganda for new life and new job > moved into shared house > have embarked on lovely but likely inadvisable romantic relationship with roommate in said shared house > now very happy and hoping it doesnt turn into a drama fest :rotfl:

    //end thread hijack//

    Hi, Did you post on here two weeksish ago that you and your roommate (slightly tipsily) got it together and you weren't too sure where you stood?????

    Candy xxx
    Debts at the start of my journey - about £23,000 lightbulb moment 01.03.2007 (1st payment to CCCS)..Debt Free Date 25.06.2013 Deposit savings £17,000/£30,000
  • Candy0107
    Candy0107 Posts: 1,645 Forumite
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    Pernicious wrote: »
    Candy - Sorry for missing this - but why is Bessie needing to be sold?

    Hi,

    Bessie needs to be sold as I have lost confidence in driving her! and it is not the car I want - in short, I think that the psycho car hates me.....hubby and brother can drive her, and she is fine, but with me no such luck!

    It's ok she is playing nice, but sometimes it refuses to get into gear - I have actually been stuck on the motorway during rush hour and not be able to move!

    As a result, I have lost complete confidence and actually panic and shake at the thought of driving her!

    Candy xxx
    Debts at the start of my journey - about £23,000 lightbulb moment 01.03.2007 (1st payment to CCCS)..Debt Free Date 25.06.2013 Deposit savings £17,000/£30,000
  • Candy0107
    Candy0107 Posts: 1,645 Forumite
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    Congrats on the audit result determined

    Candy xxx
    Debts at the start of my journey - about £23,000 lightbulb moment 01.03.2007 (1st payment to CCCS)..Debt Free Date 25.06.2013 Deposit savings £17,000/£30,000
  • Nottoobadyet
    Nottoobadyet Posts: 1,754 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Candy0107 wrote: »
    Hi, Did you post on here two weeksish ago that you and your roommate (slightly tipsily) got it together and you weren't too sure where you stood?????

    Candy xxx

    Ehem yes that was me, no booze involved though! Worked out after all I guess :A
    Mortgage free by 30:eek:: £28,000/£100,000
    :DDebt free as of 1 October, 2010:D
    Taking my frugal life on the road!
  • Candy0107
    Candy0107 Posts: 1,645 Forumite
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    Ehem yes that was me, no booze involved though! Worked out after all I guess :A

    Many congrats to you both.......walks away gushing!!!

    Candy xxx
    Debts at the start of my journey - about £23,000 lightbulb moment 01.03.2007 (1st payment to CCCS)..Debt Free Date 25.06.2013 Deposit savings £17,000/£30,000
  • josiebabie
    josiebabie Posts: 1,224 Forumite
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    josiebabie wrote: »
    Morning all,
    Thanks NTBY and Cleosmum for your kind words. I just need to suck it up and deal with it instead of whinging! Lol
    Right, list!
    - [STRIKE]Get out of bed (good start...)[/STRIKE]
    - [STRIKE]Check banking[/STRIKE] TC's gone in...don't get me started...:rotfl:
    - [STRIKE]packed lunch/snacks[/STRIKE]
    - Breakfast from stores - not done, no milk :(
    - [STRIKE]Rejig budget AGAIN to see if I can now afford to go to friends birthday party[/STRIKE] Have managed to free up £30 if I pay minimums on everything
    - [STRIKE]DD going to her dads tonight for a few days[/STRIKE]
    - Work very hard! - Errrr not really....
    - [STRIKE]Sell purges![/STRIKE] Did one
    - [STRIKE]Work out my saturdays for next month to see if I can earn enough[/STRIKE] JUST enough next month as working two Saturdays
    - [STRIKE]Do some surveys[/STRIKE] Screened out of Onepoll but 1x VO
    - try to sparkle - Didn't do too well at this, so don't really feel I can cross this off today...

    J xx

    Weeell I feel a lot better today after yesterday's shock. Plus I am loving reading about NTBY's new romance! Feeling a bit lonely myself atm with getting messed around by someone who I thought was my friend, I don't need a friend like him. I love "virtual friends". :rotfl:

    I have worked and reworked my budget and even on the absolute minimum ex has pledged me I can get by, just need to be careful and start to think more. For example, my car tax is always due the month I get my bonus, so I never put monies aside for it and use the bonus. Will do it properly from now on as the bonuses will need to be used for my over payments.

    Am having a chilled night in tonight, DD is with her dad, DB3 is at the gym, he invited me too but I decided I couldn't spare £4.50. I noticed today that my home contents insurance hadn't come out this month, so I called them and because of the renewal it won't be coming out until the 28th, so effectively I skip a month! £16 to add into my "Fiona's birthday night out fund", really didn't want to miss this party as it is a fancy dress night out and already organised my costume ages ago!

    Woah what a load of rubbish! Perhaps I should restart a diary to offload and organise all the overspill from my brain. LOL :rotfl:

    Over and out.....peace
    Nothing to report as yet...give me a minute...!
  • La_escocesa
    La_escocesa Posts: 3,119 Forumite
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    Hi everyone :wave:

    Loving reading the thread today. :D Oooh, NTBY exciting!

    sibles - my friend came round the other night and I think she was thinking we'd go out or phone for take away but I just got the pizza out the freezer and poured her a glass of wine - she soon got the hint and didn't seem to mind not going out/getting take away...or at least didn't say anything ;)

    Drafted my list in work but then didn't get a chance to post and now I don't have the energy to think. Shall add it to tomorrow's list and you can get a double wammy then :p

    zzzz, tired me.

    xxx
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