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Nice people thread part 4 - sugar and spice and all things

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  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    misskool wrote: »
    we don't tip and have never felt the need to. :o


    I don't tip the bin men, because a: its too expensive and b: they didn't collect my rubbish for over four mnths when we moved here and are starting that gme again now. Poor timing if they want a tip.


    I always tip the chimney sweep...is it a tradition, why do I feel compelled to do that?
  • PasturesNew
    PasturesNew Posts: 70,698 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    GDB2222 wrote: »
    Out of interest, do you guys tip your postman, and if so how much? I think we give him a Christmas card with £5-10, but we are nowhere near the £30 limit. Do any of the NP come close?

    I feel that we are a lot of extra work for him, as the letter box is at the bottom of the door, and I work on the top floor of the house, so it takes me a minute to get downstairs to answer him if there is something to sign for.
    I've never tipped a postman, nor does anybody I know or am related to. They're changing all the time, we don't use them much and they don't do anything special/extra for us.
  • chewmylegoff
    chewmylegoff Posts: 11,469 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    i tip in restaurants, unless the service has been really rubbish (and even then i probably won't remove the tip if it is already added on, because i'd rather avoid an argument).

    i also usually tip taxi drivers, because two taxi drivers have returned things to me that i have left in their cab, after i tipped them. although obviously that can't be the reason i started tipping them, which i now cannot remember.
  • Wheezy_2
    Wheezy_2 Posts: 1,879 Forumite
    If our postman could deliver the correct item of mail to the correct address with a success rate of at least 95%, I would tip.
    But he doesn't, so I won't.
  • misskool
    misskool Posts: 12,832 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I round it up for taxi drivers, if they have been nice (which most of them are), but not a tip as such.

    Restaurants it does depend on how good the service is, I have been known to remove them if I haven't found them great but mostly leave 10-15%. Cleaners get a Christmas card + £20 gift card (it makes me feel better although it's still just another version of cash). But this year we haven't got many presents to buy for and so I am rather more generous to members of my team.
  • michaels
    michaels Posts: 29,381 Forumite
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    Posh alert as PN would say.

    Luckily we have small children and have never had to employ a chimney sweep....
    I always tip the chimney sweep...is it a tradition, why do I feel compelled to do that?
    I think....
  • GDB2222
    GDB2222 Posts: 26,688 Forumite
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    michaels wrote: »
    Posh alert as PN would say.

    Luckily we have small children and have never had to employ a chimney sweep....

    You live in a smoke free zone. :)
    No reliance should be placed on the above! Absolutely none, do you hear?
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    I give up. I've been trying on and off all afternoon to post pics elsewhere and it doesn't work :(
  • PasturesNew
    PasturesNew Posts: 70,698 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    I've always been confused by the concept of "good service" in a restaurant - and, in tipping conversations, never knew what it meant. Upon enquiring, I have never been to the type of restaurant where you get service. The best places I've been you get to sit down and there's a tablecloth on the table. The process is: you sit down, waiter gives you a menu, you order, food comes, you eat it, bill comes, you leave. No service there to tip for.

    So ..... I have absolutely no idea what "good service" actually means.
  • michaels
    michaels Posts: 29,381 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    Posh Alert - restaurant with table cloths and someone who takes your order at the table and brings you food as opposed to someone who sits at a little glass (bulletproof/) window and asks if you would like fries with that before advising you to collect at the next window...
    I've always been confused by the concept of "good service" in a restaurant - and, in tipping conversations, never knew what it meant. Upon enquiring, I have never been to the type of restaurant where you get service. The best places I've been you get to sit down and there's a tablecloth on the table. The process is: you sit down, waiter gives you a menu, you order, food comes, you eat it, bill comes, you leave. No service there to tip for.

    So ..... I have absolutely no idea what "good service" actually means.
    I think....
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