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Trying to save a relationship

lufcgirl
lufcgirl Posts: 1,875 Forumite
edited 18 June 2011 at 5:54PM in Marriage, relationships & families
Thank you! I now have all the advice I need on the matter!
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  • dehaani
    dehaani Posts: 604 Forumite
    lufcgirl wrote: »
    yes, gay relationship as some may remember from my previous one, thought I'd have learned my lesson!
    If you correctly identified the problem then doesn't the solution seem clear?
  • Oldernotwiser
    Oldernotwiser Posts: 37,425 Forumite
    Stop texting and start talking!
  • lufcgirl
    lufcgirl Posts: 1,875 Forumite
    edited 18 June 2011 at 5:56PM
    I'm not allowed to delete....
  • 3v3
    3v3 Posts: 1,444 Forumite
    Counselling?
  • Older_but_not_wiser_2
    Older_but_not_wiser_2 Posts: 356 Forumite
    Having done the long distance relationship (glasgow - Paris), I can concur that talking is the key.
    Texting is a wee bit difficult to sustain a meaningful relationship.
    Perhaps look into moving for work/Uni/Whatever it is you do to be closer to each other.

    The good news is that long distance relationships can work. After a year together, we moved in together, and 13 years and two kids later are still happy, and together.
    Wha's like us - damn few, an' they're a' deid
    :footie:

    Competition wins:-
    July - Magic mince cookbook (first win)
  • diable
    diable Posts: 5,258 Forumite
    She is highly strung, winds her self up for no reason and is carrying baggage from her childhood and is not confident/believes in herself.

    In other words low to medium depressive.
  • diable
    diable Posts: 5,258 Forumite
    3v3 wrote: »
    Counselling?

    I think so.
  • lufcgirl
    lufcgirl Posts: 1,875 Forumite
    edited 18 June 2011 at 5:56PM
    ............
  • lufcgirl
    lufcgirl Posts: 1,875 Forumite
    edited 18 June 2011 at 5:56PM
    ...........
  • diable
    diable Posts: 5,258 Forumite
    lufcgirl wrote: »
    Lol the first part yes. The second definitely not. She's a very very confident person, model looks, everyone who sees her falls in love. She believes in herself, that she'll be a doctor, works a full time job and Uni just to get into medicine. She's an amazing person, but can wind herself up for no reason at all.

    Post photos............:p

    Want to bet she suffers from low esteem...........
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