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What feedback would you leave?!

Hi,

I purchased a dress from eBay for £33, It was described as New without tags. I paid a day later and the dress arrived today, You can tell it isn't new! It has s stain on the front which is rather noticeable and a pull on the front too!

Now don't get me wrong if this was listed as used I would of accepted it but it was listed as new?!

I am a little annoyed about it but unsure of what feedback to leave?

Any ideas?
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  • olias
    olias Posts: 3,588 Forumite
    Firstly open an SNAD and get your money back, then NEG factually - something like "described as BNWOT but was in fact used, stained and damaged".

    Olias
  • techspec
    techspec Posts: 4,464 Forumite
    You should always contact seller first - before leaving any feedback.

    As its not as described - you can return for a refund - or negotiate a partial refund if you want to keep it.

    Save the feedback until you have been through these procesdures - and then leave the feedback appropiate.

    Eg, seller gives full refund without arguement AND says keep item - in my book would have just saved themself from a neg.

    Seller won't play ball - you need to claim via ebay/paypal - seller probably deserves a neg still etc.
  • Westin
    Westin Posts: 6,382 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    You should always contact seller first - before leaving any feedback.

    As its not as described - you can return for a refund - or negotiate a partial refund if you want to keep it.

    Save the feedback until you have been through these procesdures - and then leave the feedback appropiate.

    Eg, seller gives full refund without arguement AND says keep item - in my book would have just saved themself from a neg.

    Seller won't play ball - you need to claim via ebay/paypal - seller probably deserves a neg still etc.

    great advice.

    I'd go with this. Contact the Seller first.
  • techspec
    techspec Posts: 4,464 Forumite
    olias wrote: »
    Firstly open an SNAD and get your money back, then NEG factually - something like "described as BNWOT but was in fact used, stained and damaged".

    Olias

    People who open claims or leave negs without contacting seller first should be banned.
  • tts42010
    tts42010 Posts: 97 Forumite
    Right going to contact seller and explain that I am disappointed, I am also worried that if I keep it and try and get the stain out that it won't come out!

    Going to message them now, eek first SNAD!
  • tts42010
    tts42010 Posts: 97 Forumite
    I intended on contacting the seller first anyway as I have sold the odd thing on eBay and I know I wouldn't appreciate a neg without any contact being made...

    I've messaged them now so will wait patiently for a reply and see what they say.
  • techspec
    techspec Posts: 4,464 Forumite
    tts42010 wrote: »
    I intended on contacting the seller first anyway as I have sold the odd thing on eBay and I know I wouldn't appreciate a neg without any contact being made...

    I've messaged them now so will wait patiently for a reply and see what they say.

    I know a few people who sell used items that look like new - and put new without tags. Its not on.

    Other possibility is that they have left it lying around, stored it badly or put it on the kitchen worktop etc - and its picked up a few marks.

    Either way - its their fault and you would not have paid what you did, had you known. So make sure you are happy with any outcome.

    Like you say - they may come out - but you don't know that.
  • tts42010
    tts42010 Posts: 97 Forumite
    Thanks Techspech - I have emailed them now.

    Yeah I don't want to try and get it out in case it doesn't then it looks like I have done something to the dress myself!

    Would rather just send it back and buy new!

    Like I said I wouldn't mind if it was used but I was expecting new!
  • hermum
    hermum Posts: 7,123 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    £33 for a pulled stained dress is about £33 too much. I wouldn't want to keep it. I don't know why sellers think they can pass off their crap as new.
  • olias
    olias Posts: 3,588 Forumite
    techspec wrote: »
    People who open claims or leave negs without contacting seller first should be banned.

    Whoah there! I replied in haste, and (wrongly) assumed that the OP had already contacted the seller and got nowhere as they were now at the leaving feedback stage.

    I agree that you should always contact the seller first (I am a business seller!) I would never advocate negging without giving the seller the chance to explain themselves/address any issue first.

    Olias
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