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spidereyes wrote: »

Well after the situation somewhat defused she made it very clear that basically she thinks she should be getting the attention and symptathy because her daughter has left home, we all knew that a while ago but she basically turned round and said that it was worse that had happened than this other girls dad dying and that she too had lost someone close - in reality her daughter is living a few doors down the road but I think this is probably why the whole situation emerged but I still don't beleive that gave her any right to say the things she said

What a selfish, attention seeking cow.

I wouldn't want to be friends with someone like that.

Craftyscholar

spidereyes wrote: »

Well a few doors down the road may be a slight understatement but her daughter still lives in the same area regardless, to be honest its no wonder her daughter left home, from what I understand it was a fight by my friend and her daughter about her boyfriend which has now results in the daughter moving in with said boyfriend. But way I see it was totally selfish behaviour and absolutlely no excuses for it, and espesially from girl number 2 as well....
Pretty disgusted with them both....

I spoke on the phone this morning to bereaved friend didn't mention anything about the other night but I said I just wanted to make sure she was ok and she said she was, she's with her boyfriend at the moment so Im sure he will look after her for the time being

OK - take back what I said - not justified (and I forgot there were two of them)
Glad you got to speak to bereaved friend.

rozmister

I would cut your losses with the mean cruel woman who thinks her daughter moving out is the same as losing as a parent (and finding the body?!!). She sounds like someone who is extremely self centred and mean with no understanding of compassion. Losing a parent is very traumatic without being verbally abused by some drunken lout. When people say something spiteful about a parent's death to you it cuts you like a knife. You can't believe it just happened and that someone actually went there and that someone you thought you could trust could turn into that person. It happened to me and while I still speak to the person now (we were very young and it was a different scenario) I'll always remember how much those comments hurt me.

Bo_Nidle

Its time to have a friends clearout and strike a few off your list for good.