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Will I be able to take my cat with me to an ATOS medical?

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  • Scared45
    Scared45 Posts: 75 Forumite
    She has toys to play with, and there's always something of mine like a t-shirt she can snuggle up in.

    It just seems she has emulated me in not wanting to go outside much, although in my case it's because of panic disorder.
  • CountryGuy
    CountryGuy Posts: 714 Forumite
    I am starting to see more and more now why my hand reared cat (he is 7 now) hates me being on the bath. He really cries and paws me to get out. The thing is, I had a really bad experience 2 years ago while in the bath (had a massive anxiety attack and had to be pulled out of the bath by my OH)

    I think now he must be able to sense my unease about getting in the bath and your cat must be feeling your unease of going outside.

    Animals do pick up on our feelings.
    Just sold a lawnmower on Ebay.. That's the last time my neighbour will wake me up on a Saturday morning!
  • Scared45
    Scared45 Posts: 75 Forumite
    That makes sense to me - she does go out just about every day but only 30 minutes or so.

    I've been outside with her in the gardens and she seems to enjoy being outside with me but will always follow me back inside.
  • Scared45
    Scared45 Posts: 75 Forumite
    Update.

    Well, that was a relief - I didn't have to go for a medical; what I wrote on the ESA50 was enough, apparently, and I have been placed in the support group of ESA. I am so relieved.
  • relic
    relic Posts: 2,153 Forumite
    Lmao, what a thread.

    How did I miss this one?
    Per Mare Per Terram
  • cit_k
    cit_k Posts: 24,812 Forumite
    Scared45 wrote: »
    Update.

    Well, that was a relief - I didn't have to go for a medical; what I wrote on the ESA50 was enough, apparently, and I have been placed in the support group of ESA. I am so relieved.

    Your lucky they read what you wrote, I know for a fact they didnt read what I wrote. They admitted it.
    But oddly, carried on with sending me for a medical.
    [greenhighlight]but it matters when the most senior politician in the land is happy to use language and examples that are simply not true.
    [/greenhighlight][redtitle]
    The impact of this is to stigmatise people on benefits,
    and we should be deeply worried about that
    [/redtitle](house of lords debate, talking about Cameron)
  • Scared45
    Scared45 Posts: 75 Forumite
    cit_k wrote: »
    Your lucky they read what you wrote, I know for a fact they didnt read what I wrote. They admitted it.
    But oddly, carried on with sending me for a medical.

    I got help filling in the ESA50 from my mental health worker - it helped that I kept copies of my IB50 (filled out just last November) so was able to say more or less the same about my illnesses, just updated.
  • Hovel_lady
    Hovel_lady Posts: 4,291 Forumite
    Scared45 wrote: »
    Update.

    Well, that was a relief - I didn't have to go for a medical; what I wrote on the ESA50 was enough, apparently, and I have been placed in the support group of ESA. I am so relieved.
    Glad it's worked out and you don't need to go for a medical. (Just been catching up with this).
    Give your cat a cuddle from you.
    ((Hugs)) to you x
  • Im quite new to posting on here, but having read this thread, I really feel for Scared45 and her cat. Im glad you are both sorted and wish you well for the future
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