Wedding Diet Thread....

MsShopper

Mums have that knack, don't they? I am absolutely determined, if I have kids, that I'll never be the type of mum who undermines/criticises their children under the guise of "just trying to help". My mum was a star, but she had her moments of driving me crazy!

Rups32

code my mum is the SAME. even my sis (god bless her soul) used to get me sizes too big, whenever they went shopping or got me a top and said i cant wear tight tops. i used to say bigger tops made me feel and look bigger but they always used to critise me. thats whywhenever i see my mum, i am dressed so frumpily and when i am with OH, i make effort and have found some confidence to wear tighter tops.. my mum killed my confidence! i am always scared when i try the wedding dress with her too. if she says anything im going to tell her to shut it. lol.

lovecake

Mums are good at making little comments like that code! They think they are harmless, but not when you are feeling sensitive about your weight! I'm having my dress made so thank god I don't even need to know what size it is! Lol! I'm a good size 12 (which I know is not big at all to a lot of people), but I was a size 6 when I left school, then I crept up and up to where I am now over the last 10 years.

There's no way I want to be a size 6 again because I was so skinny and had no curves, but if I could get back to a 10 (same goal as Rups!) I'd be happy! I'm short (5'2) and have a very small frame so when I put weight on it really shows. I'd be happy if I lost half a stone, but if I could lose a stone I's be over the moon!

My shred DVD should arrive soon so I took all my measurements last night so I can keep track! :S

Rups32

ah lovecake i am 5'3 tall. hehe ideally i need my weight to be in the 60s but i am over that!

i ordered my shred dvd yest!! yay!!!!:) finally after 2 days of just saying i will do it, i will do it. hehe

lovecake

Ah, well you know what it's like when you put on a bit of weight when you are ickle like us rups! Lol! All my weight goes around my hips, thighs and bum so I look out of proportion! Haha! (you've gotta laugh or you'll cry!) I'm determined to shift it for the big day! I noticed last night it was 365 sleeps to go! I'm getting married on 27/07/12!

I might post my measurements on here when I start the DVD - could be good motivation to get good results!

Rups32

yes thats a great idea.. that way if we see a gain, we can do something about it. thing with the shred dvd is, shall i still carry on my gym stuff? hmm weird.

yeah when i put on as well it first goes round my tummy and then hips and boobs too and my face. this indian woman was once so rude to me in the toilet. i never knew her as such, but said hi and bye as she was on my floor and she came out with 'your face looks bigger, you have put on weight!'. i was so shocked that i didnt even say anything to her! i was speechless. i hated her after that and never even said anything to her. think shes left but she left me feeling so upset! cow!

codemonkey

How rude of her!

According to my mum I'm either too fat or too thin. I can't win.

My weight goes to the same place as yours Rups, mostly the belly though. I remember being about 14 thinking I was so fat, and now i'd love the body I had then.

Rups32

I know.. we are just never happy with ourselves. right now i am sure that due to the planning stress, my bellys gone bigger and rounder :-(

am waiting to go to the gym and all i can smell in the office right now is curry!!

lovecake

That is so rude! I wouldn't even say that to one of my mates let alone someone I don't even know! Mental woman! I think you can probably still do your gym stuff - you may as well if you enjoy it - although I've heard that Shred is pretty intense so you might be too sore some days to do the gym as well. I'm looking forward to starting it!

Rups32

it scares me!! LOL